THE TRUTH ABOUT EMOTIONAL AFFAIRS You would be shocked at the number of lies, myths, and the variety of excuses associated with infidelity.I've gotten to the point now where I feel I can't be shocked, yet over and over again, I'm surprised by the ingenuity of wayward partners. Certain people..
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How Do I Forgive Myself… When I'm the One Who's Caused So Much Hurt and Pain? Stop for a moment and listen to this: you have the power to punish yourself for the rest of your life. You can carry the burden of past mistakes with you (all the way..
I believe you found this website by the greatest of good fortune. Even if you find it hard to believe, there IS a remedy (and relief) for the pain and suffering you have been feeling.Let me reassure you…THERE IS HOPE!My name is Suzie Johnson. It's become my life's work to help..
Expert Advice on Surviving Infidelity The Unfortunate Triangle After years of helping people survive and heal from infidelity, I've noticed something significant. You'll always find that at least three people are involved... every time.I call this the unfortunate triangle. Who are they? The betrayed... the unfaithful (wayward)... and the “other”..
WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT ON THEIR SPOUSES? It’s the billion dollar question. The answer is elusive … because there are as many reasons why people cheat, as there are people.What we know is this: Couples who enjoy OPEN and HONEST communications are less likely to experience infidelity than those who..
Currently, a Google search on “infidelity” shows 6,790,000 results on this topic. Chances are, you've probably read a good amount of “How to tell if your spouse is cheating” or “What to do if you suspect your spouse is cheating” articles.You will find that this one is a little different.My approach..
How Do You Survive An Affair? That's the question this article answers. According to statistics… only one-third of marriages survive extramarital affairs. (The numbers are better for those who seek professional help.) So, if you really want to know how you survive an affair, first we must look at:What causes..
Why are so many people blindsided by infidelity? Why do so many betrayed partners never see it coming? Looking back, we ask ourselves: were there signs, red flags, glaring evidence we should have seen coming? The answer is almost always: Yes and No.Here's why. In almost all cases of infidelity, the betrayed partner..
Are you someone who's married and cheating, or have you had an extramarital affair in the past?What does having an affair say about YOU?Here's why I ask: all behavior has a cause. A poor relationship might leave the door open for infidelity, but the decision to walk through is a..
All monogamous relationships are vulnerable to infidelity. No marriage is immune. That's why honesty is still the best defense. Couples who enjoy open communication are usually better able to detect and prevent behaviors that encourage infidelity. The following are a list of some thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that can lead to extramarital affairs...
Can Your Marriage Survive an Affair? Today, your relationship is at a turning point. Infidelity can be both a crisis and a crossroad. You owe it to each other (your families and yourself) to sit down (without blame) and have a real frank, heart-to-heart discussion about your situation. WHAT DO..
The golden rule of forgiveness teaches us… There's no hierarchy in the order of mistakes. All mistakes are simply misguided decisions. No mistake is more worthy or less worthy of forgiveness than another. Permission to Heal Forgiveness and healing begins with acknowledgement.If you've been hurt, don't deny it. It would..
ADVICE FOR PARTNERS BETRAYED BY INFIDELITY When Your Husband or Wife Has Been Caught Cheating Let me begin by saying…There is really nothing anyone can say to ease (or erase) the pain caused when a husband or wife has been caught cheating. Believe me, I truly understand. You wish it..
Are you the other woman (or man) caught in the web of infidelity?Picture this: Two friends walk into an all-you-can-eat buffet. One woman immediately joins the line and starts filling her plate with everything she wants. The second woman doesn't join the line. Instead, she waits until the other woman..