Dear Suzie, My husband and I are in the process of rebuilding our marriage. We’ve both had affairs, and I’m plagued with fear that this will happen to us again. Can you share with me some tips on how to affair-proof our marriage so that it never does?

If you’re having trouble trusting after betrayal from someone you love… then chances are pretty good that many (if not all) of these have questions have run through your mind. Here are seven frequently asked questions about trusting again after betrayal.

That’s a very good question. Here’s how the return to love feels: Imagine peace and certainty quietly returning to your heart. Imagine looking back and feeling gratitude for your mistakes. Imagine yourself no longer exiled like the prodigal son, but…

Once a person is exposed to the ideas, insights and guiding principles presented in the Passionate Monogamy Manifesto, they can begin to quietly and profoundly transform their relationships. Those who fail to heed the insights, choose to ignore the facts, or

Living transparently describes an open-book lifestyle. It’s the personal choice to allow your partner to see, know, and verify your intentions, emotions, actions and activities. The opposite of living transparently can be described as…

Dear Suzie, Both my wife and I have been trying to rebuild trust after the affair, but it doesn’t seem to stick. I’ve heard that once trust is broken, the relationship will never be the same again. I sincerely hope this isn’t true because before this happened, we totally trusted each other. And now, it seems like she’s plagued with doubts and insecurities about me all the time. What can I do to repair the trust so we can both be happy again?

Both my wife and I have cheated. But we love each other, and we want our family to stay together. … Read more

What exactly is trust? If you’re like most of my readers… somewhere in your recent past, something happened to you that was so painful, so traumatic, so disappointing, and so unpleasant that it ruined your ability to trust. And maybe after living in the shadows of mistrust, you’ve finally come to recognize…