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Suzie Johnson, cpc

Affair Recovery Expert & Marriage Coach since 1999

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I WILL DEFINITELY BOOK SOME MORE COACHING WITH HER

It was a great session I had with Suzie, more than exceeded my expectations and was of great help. Thank you very much for organizing this and I will definitely book some more coaching with her.

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ALL POSTS FOR affair PARTNERS Q&A

Is Forgiveness a Decision?
Affair Partners

Is Forgiveness a Decision?

Dear Suzie, Is forgiveness (letting go of resentments) a decision? Is it a thought, or is it something else? I love him more than myself. But since his infidelity, I’m extremely fearful of the future …

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How can life keep us apart if we are so in love?
Affair Partners

How Can Life Keep Us Apart If We Are So In Love?

Dear Suzie, I know he is truly in love with me. I believe with all my heart we are destined to be together. We’ve got so much going for us. But there’s a big problem. …

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Why should I just let his wife win?
Affair Partners

Why Should I Just Let His Wife Win?

Dear Suzie, Why should I move over and let his wife win, when I am the one who loves him and treats him like gold? I feel like we deserve to be together. Our love …

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Why is our connection so overpowering?
Affair Partners

Why Is Our Connection So Overpowering?

Dear Suzie, We have a magnetic connection. Every time we walk by each other, there’s a powerful energy. Why are we so drawn to each other? Why do we get electric shocks of energy every …

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Why does this man make me feel so weak?
Affair Partners

Why Does This Man Make Me Feel So Weak?

Dear Suzie, I don’t think I’m strong enough to let him go. This man knows exactly how to make my knees weak. I can’t seem to resist him. He lies and I believe him. What’s …

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Why didn't I just walk away when I found out he was married?
Affair Partners

Why Didn’t I Just Walk Away When I Found Out He Was Married?

Dear Suzie, I felt like a fool when I found out he was married. But like an idiot, I stayed with him. Why didn’t I just walk away? I’m so confused and disgusted with myself. …

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What if I never meet somebody who makes me feel this again?
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What If I Never Meet Somebody Who Makes Me Feel This Again?

Dear Suzie, Something inside is telling me that I shouldn’t stay with him, but I think I really love this man. Suzie, what if I never meet anyone who makes me feel like this ever …

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How do I stop getting back into the affair with him?
Affair Partners

How Do I Stop Getting Back into the Affair With Him?

Dear Suzie, I’ve been having an affair for the last two years with a married man. I have ended it and gone back more times than I can count. I feel like giving up, but …

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Should I tell him why I ended our affair?
Affair Partners

Should I Tell Him Why I Ended Our Affair?

Dear Suzie, I abruptly ended the affair a few weeks ago. Now I feel like I should talk to him and explain why. Do you think this is a good idea? Here’s something I want you to …

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Could our affair be a special affair that works?
Affair Partners

Could Our Affair Be a Special Affair That Works?

Dear Suzie, He promised that he’s being honest with me. I see no reason why he wouldn’t be, but I’m afraid to believe him. I really do believe he is in a no-win situation at …

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Isn't seeing him sometimes better than nothing?
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Isn’t Seeing Him Sometimes Better Than Nothing?

Dear Suzie, I only get to see the married man I am involved with a few days a month when I go to our headquarters for business. But I have told myself that the few …

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We are in love. How could this be wrong?
Affair Partners

We Are in Love. How Could This Be Wrong?

Dear Suzie, I just can’t seem to say no to him. I feel like I have no will of my own. I feel like such a worthless person for letting this happen. I used to …

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What if he's telling the truth about leaving his wife?
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What If He’s Telling the Truth About Leaving His Wife?

Dear Suzie, He says one day we will be together. I know it sounds cliché, but I really believe he means it. He’s an honest person in every other way. What should I do? This …

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I Had Passionate Sex with a Married Man Will He Be Back for More?

Three years ago, I had passionate sex with a married man (I’m also married). It was the kind of sex and attraction that was out of this world — one that left me craving for …

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Should I Tell His Wife About Our Affair?

I have been having an affair (I am single with children) with a married man (also with children) on and off for 3.5 years. I have no illusion that he will leave her for me. …

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Struggling to Move On After My Affair with a Coworker

Hi Suzie, I had an affair with a coworker (we are both married with three kids). One month ago, he decided to try to repair his marriage. It took him a month to “go back”, …

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Affair Partners

The Right Words to End My Emotional Affair

I have never read any article on infidelity or on overcoming the emotional traumas of an affair like the ones you have provided. For 10 years, I was in a marriage that was rocked by …

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Will I Ever Get Him Out of My Mind Completely?

Will I ever get him out of my mind completely? I don’t think I can live without him. I know I shouldn’t say it, but it’s true. It’s like there was a magnetic connection between …

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Any Help for the Other Woman Caught in a Love Triangle?

It all started out innocent. I knew from the start that he was married. We also promised each other that it won’t go too far, but it did. It all started in November 2006. I …

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I am helplessly in love with a married man.

I’m helplessly in love with a married man. He does all the things I like: he opens doors, buys me things and takes me places. He makes me feel like I’m the only thing in …

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How to Stop Loving Someone
Affair Partners

How Do I Stop Loving Someone?

Suzie, How do I stop loving someone once I’ve already started? I can’t get her out of my head. I want to move on, but I can’t. I just don’t see how it’s possible to …

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Affair Partners

Every Time I Try to End It, I End Up Back in It Again

Please don’t judge me, but I have been in an affair with a married man for the last five years. I have tried to end it countless times, and failed. I can’t count the number …

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Affair Partners
Every Time I Try to End It, I End Up Back in It Again

Please don’t judge me, but I have been in an affair with a married man for the last five years. I have tried to end it countless times, and failed. I can’t count the number …

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How to Stop Loving Someone
Affair Partners
How Do I Stop Loving Someone?

Suzie, How do I stop loving someone once I’ve already started? I can’t get her out of my head. I want to move on, but I can’t. I just don’t see how it’s possible to …

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Affair Partners
I am helplessly in love with a married man.

I’m helplessly in love with a married man. He does all the things I like: he opens doors, buys me things and takes me places. He makes me feel like I’m the only thing in …

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Affair Partners
Any Help for the Other Woman Caught in a Love Triangle?

It all started out innocent. I knew from the start that he was married. We also promised each other that it won’t go too far, but it did. It all started in November 2006. I …

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