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  • Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Should I Tell His Wife About Our Affair?

    I have been having an affair (I am single with children) with a married man (also with children) on and off for 3.5 years. I have no illusion that he will leave her for me. I am realistic and know it’s just good sex for him (with me). I have had a couple of other

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    Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Struggling to Move On After My Affair with a Coworker

    Hi Suzie, I had an affair with a coworker (we are both married with three kids). One month ago, he decided to try to repair his marriage. It took him a month to “go back”, and during that time, he continued to tell me that I was his one true love, that he belonged beside

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    Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    The Right Words to End My Emotional Affair

    I have never read any article on infidelity or on overcoming the emotional traumas of an affair like the ones you have provided. For 10 years, I was in a marriage that was rocked by multiple affairs and double lives. It took me well over a year with support, therapy and lots and lots of

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    Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Will I Ever Get Him Out of My Mind Completely?

    Will I ever get him out of my mind completely? I don’t think I can live without him. I know I shouldn’t say it, but it’s true. It’s like there was a magnetic connection between us. Every time we walk by each other, it’s like we have this powerful energy. I have never felt this

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    Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Do you need to know all the details?

    Three years ago, I had passionate sex with a married man (I’m also married). It was the kind of sex and attraction that was out of this world — one that left me craving for more. And so be it. We have caught up yearly since then. This made me fall for him even more… and

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    Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Any Help for the Other Woman Caught in a Love Triangle?

    It all started out innocent. I knew from the start that he was married. We also promised each other that it won’t go too far, but it did. It all started in November 2006. I wanted to quit on this relationship hundreds of times before, but I couldn’t. I really loved him. His wife soon

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    Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    I am helplessly in love with a married man.

    I’m helplessly in love with a married man. He does all the things I like: he opens doors, buys me things and takes me places. He makes me feel like I’m the only thing in the world that matters to him. He’s told me how bad his marriage really is, that his wife doesn’t love

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    How to Stop Loving Someone
    Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    How Do I Stop Loving Someone?

    Suzie, How do I stop loving someone once I’ve already started? I can’t get her out of my head. I want to move on, but I can’t. I just don’t see how it’s possible to force my heart to stop loving her. I love her totally, and I don’t think I will ever stop. It’s

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    Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Every Time I Try to End It, I End Up Back in It Again

    Please don’t judge me, but I have been in an affair with a married man for the last five years. I have tried to end it countless times, and failed. I can’t count the number of breaking up/reuniting episodes we’ve gone through, and he continually convinces me this affair is the perfect solution to our

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  • Suzie Johnson Affair Recovery Q & A Blog
    America's Leading Affair Recovery Expert

    This blog is a non-judgmental and Love based conversation about how to deal with the after effects of infidelity using only positive strategies. If you are looking for a place to lash out, vent anger or spew hate, then this is not the place for you.

    My husband had an affair for 4 months. I was totally devastated and felt my whole world was destroyed.

    I decided to check the internet for help and found Suzie's website. I loved the fact that even though her website was free, it was so very informative. It truly was a wealth of information and answered a lot of questions that I had, and validated feelings that I was having. My husband found it also very helpful for himself.

    We were offered the 12-session private coaching course and found out about the cost. We decided this was something that would be incredibly helpful in…

    Robin K. (USA)

    What can I say? My life was in shambles and the slew of bad choices I had made left me empty and miserable. In trying to save my marriage, I came upon Suzie on the web, and it was as if someone had left a light on in the dark.

    Desperate for any help, I booked a session with Suzie. Just in that first hour, I knew I found the help my wife and I needed. It was as if she knew me. And her frankness and compassion made me feel at ease and open. More so, her philosophy and…

    Mathew C. (USA)

    Suzie Hi!

    Just a note to tell you that we are doing great since our 3-day weekend intensive with you.

    Mark has now much more “awareness” in all fields of his life: Me, Kids, Work and it is a real miracle to see him acting in a new way.

    Thank you!

    As for me, I am feeling safer and I am starting finally to relax and enjoy the renewed energy. Words can't tell you what a blessing you were/are to our lives.

    God Bless you.

    Missing you tons!

    Nadia

    Nadia L. (Singapore)

    I believe that nothing that happens in this world is a coincidence. It was by the grace of God that I found Suzie Johnson during one of the most challenging and difficult experiences of my life.

    My husband of 15 years betrayed my trust by having sex with another woman whom he had known for only a couple of days. I found out in a very shocking and hurtful way and was suffering tremendous emotional and mental pain when I found Suzie Johnson’s website. I was desperately scouring the internet for information about how to deal with infidelity when I…

    Janee L. (USA)

    The day I discovered my husband had been cheating on me was the day I thought my entire life was over. We had only been married for 7 months. The pure shock of that moment struck me like a bolt of lightning. Although the chances of being hit by lightning are much more slim.

    My first reaction was obviously: divorce.

    That's the only option at that moment, right? Well, not exactly.

    After the initial bolt of electricity runs through your body, you have to realize that you can survive after going through such a traumatic experience. You just can't go through it…

    Karen W. (USA)

    We are months into the process, but new to Suzie. For the first time I feel like we can survive and be better.

    Barry W.

    Suzie, You were amazing yesterday in focusing on his charisma awareness! He looooved the Skype couple's session.

    You are such an inspiration! 

    I love you dearest Suzie 😉 

    Mmmwah! 

    Natalia P.