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How can life keep us apart if we are so in love?
Affair Partner Q & A

How Can Life Keep Us Apart If We Are So In Love?

Dear Suzie, I know he is truly in love with me. I believe with all my heart we are destined to be together. We’ve got so much going for us. But there’s a big problem. We are both married. He doesn’t want to leave his wife and kids, and I don’t want to leave my husband and family. But we both love each other. I feel so lost. At night, I am lying next to my husband and I wish it were him. He tells me he feels the same thing. I really believe I have finally found the man of my dreams, the one great love of my life, and yet we can’t be together. How could life be …

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Why should I just let his wife win?
Affair Partner Q & A

Why Should I Just Let His Wife Win?

Dear Suzie, Why should I move over and let his wife win, when I am the one who loves him and treats him like gold? I feel like we deserve to be together. Our love deserves a chance. His wife deserves to lose him. She doesn’t care about him. She treats him like dirt! Picture this: Two friends walk into an all-you-can-eat buffet. One woman immediately joins the line and starts filling her plate with everything she wants. The second woman doesn’t join the line. Instead, she sits and waits until the other woman returns to the table and begins stealing food from her friend’s plate. What’s wrong with this picture? If you’re at an all-you-can-eat buffet, why would you …

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Why is our connection so overpowering?
Affair Partner Q & A

Why Is Our Connection So Overpowering?

Dear Suzie, We have a magnetic connection. Every time we walk by each other, there’s a powerful energy. Why are we so drawn to each other? Why do we get electric shocks of energy every time we stand near each other? Why do we make each other laugh and feel so happy the way no one else can? What’s this powerful thing happening between us? Is this love or what? I see you’ve been hijacked by sexual emotions. This isn’t a sign of Love. It’s a sign of lust. Mother Nature does this to make sure we feel strongly enough to procreate. She doesn’t care about your career, how it might look in the work place, or how it might …

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Affair Partner Q & A

Every Time I Try to End It, I End Up Back in It Again

Please don’t judge me, but I have been in an affair with a married man for the last five years. I have tried to end it countless times, and failed. I can’t count the number of breaking up/reuniting episodes we’ve gone through, and he continually convinces me this affair is …

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How to Stop Loving Someone
Affair Partner Q & A

How Do I Stop Loving Someone?

Suzie, How do I stop loving someone once I’ve already started? I can’t get her out of my head. I want to move on, but I can’t. I just don’t see how it’s possible to force my heart to stop loving her. I love her totally, and I don’t think …

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I am helplessly in love with a married man.

I’m helplessly in love with a married man. He does all the things I like: he opens doors, buys me things and takes me places. He makes me feel like I’m the only thing in the world that matters to him. He’s told me how bad his marriage really is, …

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Affair Partner Q & A

Any Help for the Other Woman Caught in a Love Triangle?

It all started out innocent. I knew from the start that he was married. We also promised each other that it won’t go too far, but it did. It all started in November 2006. I wanted to quit on this relationship hundreds of times before, but I couldn’t. I really …

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Affair Partner Q & A

Will I Ever Get Him Out of My Mind Completely?

Will I ever get him out of my mind completely? I don’t think I can live without him. I know I shouldn’t say it, but it’s true. It’s like there was a magnetic connection between us. Every time we walk by each other, it’s like we have this powerful energy. …

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Affair Partner Q & A

The Right Words to End My Emotional Affair

I have never read any article on infidelity or on overcoming the emotional traumas of an affair like the ones you have provided. For 10 years, I was in a marriage that was rocked by multiple affairs and double lives. It took me well over a year with support, therapy …

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Affair Partner Q & A

Struggling to Move On After My Affair with a Coworker

Hi Suzie, I had an affair with a coworker (we are both married with three kids). One month ago, he decided to try to repair his marriage. It took him a month to “go back”, and during that time, he continued to tell me that I was his one true …

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Affair Partner Q & A

Should I Tell His Wife About Our Affair?

I have been having an affair (I am single with children) with a married man (also with children) on and off for 3.5 years. I have no illusion that he will leave her for me. I am realistic and know it’s just good sex for him (with me). I have …

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Affair Partner Q & A

I Had Passionate Sex with a Married Man Will He Be Back for More?

Three years ago, I had passionate sex with a married man (I’m also married). It was the kind of sex and attraction that was out of this world — one that left me craving for more. And so be it. We have caught up yearly since then. This made me …

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What if he's telling the truth about leaving his wife?
Affair Partner Q & A

What If He’s Telling the Truth About Leaving His Wife?

Dear Suzie, He says one day we will be together. I know it sounds cliché, but I really believe he means it. He’s an honest person in every other way. What should I do? This sword cuts both ways, so be very careful what you wish for (you just may …

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