What others are saying
After the second time, I felt an honest calming feeling in my stomach
Recently, I came across the GoAskSuzie website and ordered the home-study course for betrayed partners. I listened to it twice in its entirety. After the second time, I felt an honest calming feeling in my stomach. I realized that it was not the affair itself that brought all this suffering to me but MY image that I attached to the event. For the first time in 3 months, I was able to get a good night's sleep and felt somewhat relaxed. Although my husband is still actively in the affair, I have been able to control the one thing that I could control, and that is my thoughts and forgiveness, which gets me through each day. I have learned to take it one day at a time. I do not have a doubt in my mind that with further coaching from Suzie, she will help both of us understand ourselves more, show us how to use the affair as a learning tool, keep our family together and rebuild our marriage and family for the better as God wants us to have. I have never heard of anyone who uses such inspirational, clear, truthful and meaningful words as well as Suzie Johnson....
Her words reach the bottom of the heart
It seems that Suzie knows everything, and her words reach the bottom of the heart, as I was crying all 20 minutes. She is like a ray of light showing the right direction in the darkness of my own thoughts. It's very difficult not to start thinking negatively, but I will try to stick to her guidance. Thank God we have such person as Suzie who can find the words we seek for. Thanks for all your team for doing such a great job!
We have completed the 12 weeks and our relationship is in a state that I love
My husband had an affair for 4 months. I was totally devastated and felt my whole world was destroyed. I decided to check the internet for help and found Suzie's website. I loved the fact that even though her website was free, it was so very informative. It truly was a wealth of information and answered a lot of questions that I had, and validated feelings that I was having. My husband found it also very helpful for himself. We were offered the 12-week coaching course and found out about the cost. We decided this was something that would be incredibly helpful in our relationship and that would be priceless. We decided that we wanted to be together and wanted to do whatever it took to have more of Suzie's help. We have completed our 12 week course and our relationship is in a state that I love. I am grateful for the tools that I have learned to apply to my daily living in every aspect of my life. I have learned to love, be truly forgiving, live in the moment, and to look to the good in everything. We believe that Suzie is a blessing and am very...
Suzie showed me that the love I have for my husband, our marriage and our future was much stronger than all of this
The day I discovered my husband had been cheating on me was the day I thought my entire life was over. We had only been married for 7 months. The pure shock of that moment struck me like a bolt of lightning. Although the chances of being hit by lightning are much more slim. My first reaction was obviously: divorce. That's the only option at that moment, right? Well, not exactly. After the initial bolt of electricity runs through your body, you have to realize that you can survive after going through such a traumatic experience. You just can't go through it alone. You need someone like Suzie. Your life is not over, it's actually just begun. This intense current running through your bones can kill you if you let it. Don't. Fight. Fight the urge to just lay down and take it. Suzie showed me that the love I have for my husband, our marriage and our future was much stronger than all of this. She gave us the tools to pick up all the charred pieces and build something new again. She's a miracle worker. Please trust her to do the same with you. She helped me rehabilitate...
Suzie’s teachings and warm approach is what has made the difference
I'm writing just to share that my husband and I have used many of Suzie's session from her Marriage Rehab online workshop, and have also been seeing a counselor regularly for nearly the past year. In addition to this, I have found an appetite for reading and listening to teachings of several great thinkers and spiritual teachers of our time. It is not in any way an overstatement to say that Suzie is without a doubt among them - she is so much more than a marriage coach, and I know that I have been blessed to have found her work right when I so desperately needed to hear, embrace and incorporate it into my internal life and my interactions with those around me. My family is much stronger and healthier for it, and I am grateful for a new start and newfound empowerment to make good and healthy choices, listen to and know and like myself better, to set boundaries, and to be gentler and stronger at the same time. Forgiveness has been a very hard process, and every time I feel myself letting go more, embracing that forgiveness more - knowing that self trust was the biggest element...
Your website here has been the most beautiful and genuine thought-provoking source of encouragement that I have ever found
Dear Suzie, It has been four years almost to the day since the discovery of my husband's year-long affair and I have experienced some of my darkest, most painful and challenging moments in these past few years. I have felt like no one on earth was able to console me or comfort me which I found to be true... that God was my strength and my joy during these times and still remains. I have made many mistakes in dealing with the aftermath of my husbands affair by attacking him verbally and even physically at times because of my deep feelings of betrayal. We were the "perfect" happy couple with 2 beautiful little boys and a baby girl on her way. We were always deeply in love and I thought if anything else went wrong on this earth, I knew that my marriage would be solid and strong because of the love and commitment we shared as a couple. I was blindsided and felt like I was hit by a Mack truck when I discovered the truth. It has taken me these years of anger, confusion, sadness to find that my true joy in life wasn't really in the trust...
Talking with her made a big difference with me today
I just want to thank you for squeezing me in with Suzie today. She is amazing. She is a great listener, so down to earth, knowledgeable and I am looking forward to talking with her again. I have already learned a lot from her Wayward Rehab sessions. But talking with her made a big difference with me today.
Up until now we have muddled our way through counseling
Thanks so much Suzie. We have found your couples course we have reviewed so far to be VERY helpful and a "breath of fresh air" for both of us as we continue to try and figure out the best way to work through this. Up until now we have muddled our way through counseling, books, etc. and just have not seemed to be able to find a comprehensive approach that has helped make much of a difference for us so far. Finally, we have a sense of hope and direction. Thank you!
REAL Love DOES win
I am so grateful for this website!!! I just went through an emotional affair that caused me a lot of heartache, tears, and guilt. When I was finally ready to come out of denial, this site helped me so much! My therapist was not even close in helping as much as this site. I was finally "willing" to let go and that was my light bulb moment. I know I have strong will power and within a day I feel like a new person. Free from all of the angst and anxiety I felt while going through the affair. Realizing that my 16 year marriage is real love, even if it's not as exciting and "fun" (or so I thought, it really was not that fun going thru this!), we have a strong commitment, history, support, children, and longevity that far surpasses anything the affair could offer. I would encourage anyone going through an emotional affair to pore over Suzi's articles and face the reality of the situation. I had to read them several times to make it sink in. I had convinced myself that this was a "real" relationship and if we could just be together my life would...
Thank you for making it free, available & so honest
Hi Suzie, Many thanks! My name is Susan, been married for 22 years & recently discovered my husband was having an emotional affair with someone he was 'mentoring'. This has been one of the hardest things I had to face in my life & as we all know it's something you can NEVER prepare for... In my darkest moments a friend recommended I search the internet for some help. On my own, on holiday, in a total state of anguish, despair & obsession, knowing full well that my husband was still in contact with her, even after he promised to DNC, I browsed the Net & found your site. THANK YOU! Thank you for making it free, available & so honest. Over the past few weeks I have read all your articles & have to say that somehow, in each one of them, I found relevance to me & my situation: even as the ' betrayed spouse', I found sections in the 'wayward partner' & the 'affair partner' that resonated with me & helped me on the road to recovery, forgiveness & healing on a personal level. Your articles have kept me sane & comforted throughout my most desperate moments....
It is amazing and is saving my sanity!
I am sooooo loving the home study sessions!! They have helped so much!! Even though these revolve around infidelity, which there hasn't been in our marriage, they are perfect for any situation. I have needed to learn to forgive and let go for most of my life!! I am 41 years old and hadn't learned this. It is amazing and is saving my sanity!! Thank you so much!! Love her voice, its so soothing and relaxing!! I just let a Doctor friend of my review to one of your sessions, Healing the Hurt, he is so inspired. He has had so much hate for his ex-wife, whom he has talked badly about in front of their kids. I stopped him and said to him he needed to let it go and forgive her, he was so angry and wouldn't look at me... within 1 hr, after listening to her, he is empowered and on your website now wanting more! Wanting to purchase anything he can of hers..... His name is (deleted for privacy). I'm sure you will be hearing from him shortly. Just wanting to give you the heads up. 🙂 Anyway, wanted you to know how much I am...
I really appreciate your going the extra mile
Thank you. I really appreciate your going the extra mile. Suzie must get a ton of email and other communication but I hope you'll let her know that that I, only 11 days post-discovery of the affair, already feel more hopeful, more connected to things I can do to help myself. I'm not out of the woods yet but I see a light and for that this is money extremely well spent. Please send my regards and gratitude. 🙂
Your words have given me so much hope
My name is Christine and I've been with my high school sweetheart for nine years. We got pregnant young and have had many challenges since. Both my husband and I come from broken families and have had little to no support with anything at all. I've had no one to turn to for advice. Your words have given me so much hope for the future. I recently told him I wasn't in love with him and feel terrible for it. I know our love is still there. Once again thank you for the work that you do I will continue to read your articles and remind myself who I can become. Thanks so much!
Suzie’s a miracle worker. Please trust her to do the same with you
The day I discovered my husband had been cheating on me, was the day I thought my entire life was over. We had only been married for 7 months. The pure shock of that moment struck me like a bolt of lightning. Although the chances of being hit by lightning are much more slim. My first reaction was obviously: divorce. That's the only option at that moment, right? Well not exactly. After the initial bolt of electricity runs through your body you have to realize that you can survive after going through such a traumatic experience. You just can't go through it alone. You need someone like Suzie. Your life is not over, it's actually just begun. This intense current running through your bones can kill you if you let it. Don't. Fight. Fight the urge to just lay down and take it. Suzie showed me that the love I have for my husband, our marriage and our future was much stronger than all of this. Suzie's coaching and home study programs gave us the tools to pick up all the charred pieces and build something new again. Suzie's a miracle worker. Please trust her to do the same with...
Your website has been a saving grace for me
I have been married for 7 years. During this time I have had proof of my husband flirting on social media. Recently my intuition was telling me something is not right. So I investigated and managed to get a recording of him telling someone he missed them & was thinking of them. This revelation has torn my world apart... but what hurts most is that I have confronted my husband without the recordings & he refuses to admit & says to show him the proof. His phone is locked & on silent & recently he looked through mine to see if he found the proof. Your website has been a saving grace for me. Before I would have argued, but I am drawing strength & wisdom from your website and I have asked him to leave. He has packed his clothes & put them in garage but he hasn't moved. I have purchased your betrayed partner home study. I have also sent links for the wayward rehab course to my husband. I feel like your website and programs are truly heaven sent. It's okay to share my recommendation on your website. Thank you so much for taking the time to...
We would not be where we are in our relationship without her guidance
My name is Alison and my husband had an affair for 4 months. I was totally devastated and felt my whole world was destroyed. I decided to check the internet for help and found Suzie's website. I loved the fact that just her website that was free, was so very informative. It truly was a wealth of information and answered a lot of questions that I had, and validated feelings that I was having. My husband found it also very helpful for himself. I thought what the heck, I would try one session with Suzie. Well, our phone meeting with Suzie was truly amazing. We were offered 12 week coaching plan and found out about the cost. We decided this was something that would be incredibly helpful in our relationship and that would be priceless. We decided that we wanted to be together and wanted to do whatever it took to have more of Suzie's help. We have completed the 12 weeks and our relationship is in a state that I love. I am grateful for the tools that I have learned to apply to my daily living in every aspect of my life. I have learned to love, be...
I promise you that if you talk to Suzie just once, you will have a different opinion about your wife and yourself and your life!
For all of the men out there who have stumbled across these words because you are thinking of having an affair or are in one now, this isn’t just by chance. You are here because you are supposed to be. If you love your wife and yourself and your family like I do, stop and think about what is real in your life and what you really want. It may be that you don’t know right now and that is okay, but I promise you that if you talk to Suzie just once, you will have a different opinion about your wife and yourself and your life! There is a world of things that make us think we have to be like or act like someone or something else but if you are ever going to be a man of independence and know your place in your world, educate yourself and find yourself. You will find honesty and forgiveness in yourself, your wife and even others. The truth is hard but when you live transparently, you are truly a free soul and the best friend and husband. The day my wife learned the truth about my affair was the best...
I just tried to book another session
Thank you for talking with me yesterday. I found it very helpful. I just tried to book another session, and you do not have anything until next Wednesday. Is there anything sooner? Please let me know if you have an earlier time to talk.
I’ve just finished listening to “Healing the Hurt you didn’t deserve” for the 10th time
I am so impressed with your quick response any time I’ve reached out to you. When my wife and I get through all the mess she’s created (and I believe we will) I would love to explore ways to help you get this information out to others in need. I found the site via a Google search and told my wife about it. She agreed to purchase the materials only because I asked her to do so. She felt like she was in no position to argue against the purchase. However, once she began to listen to the audios related to the “wayward partner” she found the information there life-changing. She told me a couple of days ago that it seems every other sentence or two contains something of great value for her. I, too, have found the audios a tremendous help. I just finished listening to Healing the Hurt You Didn’t Deserve for the 10th time. My wife and I are going away this weekend. I’ve really struggled with anger these last couple of days so listening to the Healing the Hurt… audio this morning has helped. Suzie says that anger is a reaction to fear. I’ve thought a...
I don’t think there would be any hope left for my relationship if I hadn’t discovered you
Dear Suzie, First of all, I want to thank you for your amazingness! I don't think there would be any hope left for my relationship if I hadn't discovered you and your brilliant online coaching programs. And I am speaking from a lot of experience with majorly traumatic episodes in my life. Through all of those experiences I have researched and read profusely about the matters I was dealing with and psychological and spiritual approaches to dealing with them. This latest trauma of betrayal has been no different, and you are clearly THE expert in my view. Your voice, your language, your vision, your understanding, your compassion, even your Caribbean accent, all work together to form the perfect guidance for all parties involved in the affair. So thank you with all my heart.
I looked at her and I said “I forgive you.”
Suzie, There is a small chart I copied into my journal off of your website at the beginning of this dark journey. It contains 3 stages. I can't tell you how many times I have looked at that chart asking myself when I would get to stage 3- Learning and Acceptance? It seemed like I would never truly get there. In an odd twist of fate, it was my trip to CA that gave me the final push. The first week, of my two-week trip proved to be unpleasant and challenging at best. I wrestled my ego what seemed like minute-by-minute. It was mentally exhausting. And it was inside of one of the most impulsive things I have ever done that I found peace. Faced with having lived in CA for 10 years and never taking the opportunity to go see the Golden Gate Bridge, I made the decision to go at 5:00 pm Saturday night. As I made it to my destination and I stood on a hilltop staring over the Bay area with the Golden Gate Bridge in my foresight (a life long dream of mine), I embraced that moment and felt so courageous for taking the opportunity...
Suzie saved me when I was completely hopeless and helpless
I recently purchased your Wayward Rehab home study and have been listening to Suzie. She has been an incredible source of help and support. I am so thankful for her. Suzie saved me when I was completely hopeless and helpless. I now feel like I can do this and there is a light at the end of this tunnel. I not only feel like I can do it, I now know how. Thank you. My purchase was smooth and the programs easy to access.
The presentation is concise, methodical and structured
We have been able to access the Marriage Rehab programs. I am really, really impressed with her knowledge and how she presents her material. What I like about Suzie's courses is that the presentation is concise, methodical and structured. You don't have to go through 20 minutes of content just to get a 5 sentence sound bite. Each minute is easy to follow and meaty. Definitely "got the beef" in this! Very helpful. Tell Suzie thank you for making such an amazing resource. 🙂 Cheers!
The victim vs. survivor thought process is really resonating with me now
This is the perfect stepping stone on my path to recovery. I truly sense it in my spirit. The victim vs. survivor thought process is really resonating with me now. I have been trying to move forward after the ordeal but seemingly am in a holding pattern. The quick response leads me to believe you genuinely care. This is so needed at the moment. Friends of mine feel empathy but do not understand what going through this entails. Thanks again!
The program has been my lifeline
Thank you so much! The program has been my lifeline and already has helped tremendously. Can't wait for my husband to begin! Thanks much!
You are what we are most Thankful for
Hi Suzie, We wish you and yours a beautiful Thanksgiving and Christmas Season! We are Thankful for you helping people like us ... who 'walked into ... pure hell ... and are trying to find our way back to the 'real love and respect' we had for each other. We are making progress... I know we still do love each other. I hope our love can handle all this necessary 'shaking off the dirt' that spit upon us, during his 'affairs-escape-rides'. And so many other affairs I am certain he has had and will not yet or ever admit - Thank you Suzie, for being available to help us find our way back to some sort of peace of mind. You are what we are most Thankful for. Your passion to help others is a gift we all will take with us and be grateful for....no matter what the outcome is. Thank you so much!
Suzie is amazing
Suzie is amazing. If she can't get through to someone, I don't think anyone can.
Our goal is to make this the
Suzie's Marriage Rehab home study program has been great. So many insights that we would have not thought of on our own. Thank you for having these out there to help us along this journey. Our goal is to make this the "best worst thing" that has ever happened to us and with the help of the program, I see no reason why it won't be. Thanks again.
It’s better than any therapist meetings or books I’ve read. Amazing!
Suzie, I can't even tell you how helpful these programs have been. I wish I had them 30 days ago. They are better than any therapist meetings or books I've read. Amazing!
I have to say I'm so glad I found this series. I was super skeptical of the cost and also I'm surprised that I can't find any third-party reviews of the program and website out there on the Internet. As a "modern consumer" I am used to beginning every purchase by first looking at the reviews whether this is on yelp, Amazon, consumer reports or any other verifiable unbiased site. This made it difficult for me to make the initial purchase of the Wayward Rehab online workshop, but since my partner seems to be in agreement about how helpful your site has been for her - I registered for the course and have now gone through the first hour. I'm already impressed - as well as uplifted - by the information contained within. I guess what I'm saying is it would be nice to somehow figure out a way to get some reviews out there. Thank you for creating such a helpful program!
I truly stand in awe in the amount of care both you and Suzie have put into the program
Wow! I truly stand in awe in the amount of care both you and Suzie have put into the program. I feel blown away with how much progress I've made because of the Betrayed Partner program, and to see that the people behind it are just as high of quality as the program and product itself truly amazes me. From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much! Please send my warm regards to Suzie as well. I am serious when I say you are both angels 🙂 Thank you.
I have listened to “Forgiving Infidelity and Releasing Pain” 15 times.
Suzie, I have gone through your Forgiving Infidelity and Releasing Pain session at least 15 times. It has really helped me. I want to talk about my situation, and about the best way to convey forgiveness. I almost don't know if my wife would believe me if I told her face-to-face. I think the best way would be face-to-face.
She’s the first person to break through the pain of my spouse’s affair
Is there a way to share this with Suzie? I just want to say THANK YOU. She's the first person to break through the pain of my spouse's affair. What he did hurt terribly. I started self-destructing and giving up hope. I hated him and his lover. She lived with us for a while after the tornado -and this affair started before that time. A part of me died to learn this was going on two years, during the time that I was completing my master's degree and helping people in disaster recovery full time. She acted like she was my "friend" and he brought her to live with us knowing they were already having an affair. Unbelievable. I sat in a cemetery two Saturdays ago thinking about life and death, and I parked near an angel statue and played Suzie's mp3 on forgiveness. I think I played it 5 times before it started to sink in. As I looked across from me, I saw a tree, with what appeared to be 2 broken hearts. In that moment, I realized that maybe my husband was deeply hurting to have turned to another woman and he's probably hurting now from the...
Healing the Hurt has made a huge impact on my life
Dear Suzie, Thank you so much for all your hard work. I finally finished listening to all of Healing the Hurt last night. This has made a huge impact on my life. Especially the part on "Ego"... wow! Talk about looking in the mirror. Sometimes it's hard to see the real person you are. Positive changes are being made in my life. Again, thank you!
Have spent a good part of the afternoon soaking in the program
Thank you for solving the issue with my email and helping me to find my Betrayed Partner program. I logged on successfully and have spent a good part of the afternoon soaking in the program. Perfect information at the perfect time... Please let Suzie know how truly grateful I am. Thank you!
I just ended an affair with a married man
Thank you for this. I just ended an affair with a married man who I really at a point believed loved me and told me he was going to leave his marriage. But when it came to times I needed real results, he said he can't give me answers at this time. So I knew I had to leave. It lasted 7 months. But I before that, we were friends for over 10 years and it hurts. I ended it a few days ago and I was looking for support of course. This is one of the best things I've read. So I just want to say thank you.