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  • Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Struggling to Move On After My Affair with a Coworker

    Hi Suzie, I had an affair with a coworker (we are both married with three kids). One month ago, he decided to try to repair his marriage. It took him a month to “go back”, and during that time, he continued to tell me that I was his one true love, that he belonged beside

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    Affair Partner Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    The Right Words to End My Emotional Affair

    I have never read any article on infidelity or on overcoming the emotional traumas of an affair like the ones you have provided. For 10 years, I was in a marriage that was rocked by multiple affairs and double lives. It took me well over a year with support, therapy and lots and lots of

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    Wayward Spouse Q&A
    Suzie Johnson

    Help for Wayward Spouse to Understand

    I’m the wayward spouse needing help to understand. It’s been about 8 weeks since D-Day. The first few weeks, we were working together on the pain and recovery, but about 4 weeks ago, it was like a light switch went off. She has since told me, “I will never forgive you and you will never

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    Wayward Spouse Q&A
    Suzie Johnson

    Can I Still Have My Affair Partner in My Life?!

    I’ve been married for 8 years and have three children. My best friend for over 20 years and I had an emotional affair. We only kissed, but several times! We decided to end the affair before it escalated further. Is it possible to still have my affair partner in my life?! I want to be

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    Wayward Spouse Q&A
    Suzie Johnson

    My partner is struggling with his own guilt

    I have known my friend for about 6 years now. And in June last year, we began a relationship. It’s very complicated. His wife of 30 years was diagnosed with a rare disease that attacks the nervous system, and the same with his middle son who is now 26 years old. She has been in

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    Wayward Spouse Q&A
    Suzie Johnson

    Addicted to Emotional Affairs?

    I am in my early 30s and in a deeply loving and healthy relationship for the first time in my life. The sex is amazing, and my significant other completely “gets” me to the point where words don’t always need to be spoken. It’s everything fairy tales have you dream of. MY issue is that,

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    Wayward Spouse Q&A
    Suzie Johnson

    How Can We Rebuild After Double Affairs?

    I’ve been married for a little over 4 years to my husband. I cheated on him a couple of times in the past, and he recently found out about it. I know the reason I cheated was related to the fact that I was raped when I was younger, and I never did anything to

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    Wayward Spouse Q&A
    Suzie Johnson

    I was an anti-cheater, now turned into a cheater.

    About 9 months ago, I was in a physically — and mentally — tough training environment, and became very close to a man who was also there. We leaned on each other for support and became very good friends. We also live in the same town, so on downtimes, we would carpool to go home and see

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  • Suzie Johnson Affair Recovery Q & A Blog
    America's Leading Affair Recovery Expert

    This blog is a non-judgmental and Love based conversation about how to deal with the after effects of infidelity using only positive strategies. If you are looking for a place to lash out, vent anger or spew hate, then this is not the place for you.

    My husband had an affair for 4 months. I was totally devastated and felt my whole world was destroyed.

    I decided to check the internet for help and found Suzie's website. I loved the fact that even though her website was free, it was so very informative. It truly was a wealth of information and answered a lot of questions that I had, and validated feelings that I was having. My husband found it also very helpful for himself.

    We were offered the 12-session private coaching course and found out about the cost. We decided this was something that would be incredibly helpful in…

    Robin K. (USA)

    What can I say? My life was in shambles and the slew of bad choices I had made left me empty and miserable. In trying to save my marriage, I came upon Suzie on the web, and it was as if someone had left a light on in the dark.

    Desperate for any help, I booked a session with Suzie. Just in that first hour, I knew I found the help my wife and I needed. It was as if she knew me. And her frankness and compassion made me feel at ease and open. More so, her philosophy and…

    Mathew C. (USA)

    Suzie Hi!

    Just a note to tell you that we are doing great since our 3-day weekend intensive with you.

    Mark has now much more “awareness” in all fields of his life: Me, Kids, Work and it is a real miracle to see him acting in a new way.

    Thank you!

    As for me, I am feeling safer and I am starting finally to relax and enjoy the renewed energy. Words can't tell you what a blessing you were/are to our lives.

    God Bless you.

    Missing you tons!


    Nadia L. (Singapore)

    I believe that nothing that happens in this world is a coincidence. It was by the grace of God that I found Suzie Johnson during one of the most challenging and difficult experiences of my life.

    My husband of 15 years betrayed my trust by having sex with another woman whom he had known for only a couple of days. I found out in a very shocking and hurtful way and was suffering tremendous emotional and mental pain when I found Suzie Johnson’s website. I was desperately scouring the internet for information about how to deal with infidelity when I…

    Janee L. (USA)

    The day I discovered my husband had been cheating on me was the day I thought my entire life was over. We had only been married for 7 months. The pure shock of that moment struck me like a bolt of lightning. Although the chances of being hit by lightning are much more slim.

    My first reaction was obviously: divorce.

    That's the only option at that moment, right? Well, not exactly.

    After the initial bolt of electricity runs through your body, you have to realize that you can survive after going through such a traumatic experience. You just can't go through it…

    Karen W. (USA)

    We are months into the process, but new to Suzie. For the first time I feel like we can survive and be better.

    Barry W.

    Suzie, You were amazing yesterday in focusing on his charisma awareness! He looooved the Skype couple's session.

    You are such an inspiration! 

    I love you dearest Suzie 😉 


    Natalia P.