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Suzie Johnson, cpc
Affair Recovery Expert & Marriage Coach since 1999
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Is Forgiveness a Decision?
Dear Suzie, Is forgiveness (letting go of resentments) a decision? Is it a thought, or is it something else? I love him more than myself. But since his infidelity, I’m extremely fearful of the future …
My husband had an affair with a psychologist.
Thank you for your wonderful blog! My husband had a two-year affair with a clinical psychologist, not his therapist. Upon discovery, she came to my home to convince him that she is better for him even though he made clear that he was going to work on his marriage. She knew he was narcissistic but fed this disorder…even in my presence. Before discovery…
What Should I Do About the Other Woman?
Dear Suzie, I can’t stop thinking about the other woman. I know he’s at fault, too, but for some reason, I totally blame her. She knew what she was doing. She knew he was a …
What Kind of Woman Has An Affair & Does This To Her Family?
Dear Suzie, What kind of woman does this to her family? Does this to her kids? How could she have been so selfish, so insensitive? Didn’t she think about how it would destroy me and …
It’s the Second Time He Has Cheated. What Should I Do?
Dear Suzie, I caught my husband having an affair a few months ago. I wanted to save my marriage so I decided to forgive him. He promised to stop seeing the other woman, but I …
How Long Should I Wait To Forgive My Wife?
Dear Suzie, I want to forgive my wife, but I’m worried that if I forgive her too soon, she’ll just think that I’m weak and she can do this to me again. So how long …
How Do I Stop the Images of Them Together from Driving Me Crazy?
Dear Suzie, I can’t stop obsessing about them being together. Just the thought that she did things with him that she never did with me is making me crazy. I have these images of them …
How Could One Selfish Act Destroy My Beliefs?
Dear Suzie, Four months ago, I found out that my husband cheated. This one selfish act destroyed my entire belief system. I used to be a very positive person. I used to believe the glass …
Did I Cause Him to Cheat on Me?
Dear Suzie, I look back on our relationship, and think he always had a higher sex drive than me, he always wanted to try certain things in bed that I never wanted to. Now, I find …
Ashley Madison Hacked – Should I Check My Husband’s Email?
Since I found out about the Ashley Madison hack, I have been sick to my stomach. Last year, I discovered that my husband had been chatting with several women in online dating sites, a couple …
Shouldn’t He Cut Off Contact With His Affair Partner?
Thank you for this incredible website! I recently forced my “best friend” to admit to me she was having an affair with my partner of five years (with whom I have two children). I have …
Is Not Having Enough Sex at Home Enough to Cause a Man to Cheat?
I just found out that my husband of 9 years cheated last year when we were pregnant with our first child. He was traveling for work Monday through Friday every week. We had a plan …
Obsessed with Affair Partner
Why am I obsessed with my husband’s affair partner? My husband made a clean break from her. He told her he regretted their actions, he hated what they did, and he wished he had never …
Infidelity in a Swinger Relationship?
Thank you so much for this site, the resources on it, and for the audio materials you offer. I recently purchased “Forgiving Infidelity and Releasing Pain” and already, it’s helping me to learn how to …
Can I Ignore His Cheating?
My partner of almost three years continually cheats on me. I have come to understand that there hasn’t been a time when he hasn’t been with at least one other woman, all while claiming to …
Why Do I Refuse to Believe It Never Went Beyond Swapping Pictures?
My fiancé and I have dated for five years and have had a beautiful relationship overall. He is my best friend and has respected me and been there for me through thick and thin. Having …
When will I forgive and move on?
I have been in a relationship with my kid’s father for almost 9 years. Two years ago, he slept with another woman and there is a possibility he is her twin’s father. I don’t know …
Do you need to know all the details?
Do you need to know all the details — where they went, what they did, gifts, how many times they had sex, how long the affair lasted? My husband has had two affairs, and they …
How do I stop thinking about the affair?
My husband had an affair with a co-worker. He no longer works with her, and swears he has told me everything, yet I don’t believe him. I think it’s because it took 3 years for …
What Does this Other Woman See in My Husband?
What does this other woman see in my man? He’s nothing to write home about. He’s an ex-convict, he’s not a financial catch, he lies, and he’s not shown himself to be trustworthy — either …
Regressing Rather than Progressing
I am struggling and I’ve had a rough week, even rougher than the week before. Since I came across your website, I read every single article and I still feel like there are so many …
My Husband Cheated. Am I to Blame?
For the last 3 months, my husband had been very distant, working late, not answering my phone calls. I feel that I was in denial about what he was doing. It is so unlike him …
Why Does My Wife’s Cheating Increase My Desires?
My wife cheated on me years ago. At first, I gave her hell, then I got over it by enjoying the fact that she liked sex so much, she did it with someone else while …
My Husband is a Serial Cheater. Is There a Chance He Will Stop?
My husband and I have been together for 14 years, married for 11. When I first started seeing my husband, he was also seeing 2 other women and 1 man (didn’t know about the man …
My Family Almost Disowned Me for Reconciling with My Husband.
My husband and I have decided to work on our marriage, as it’s what we have always wanted but haven’t really known how to do. He has moved back home, we both go to individual …
I Feel Pressured to Forgive His Infidelity.
My husband had an affair with one of his employees. Now, he’s pressuring me to forgive him and to not break up our family — as if it was me that would break our family. At first, …
My Husband Wants Forgiveness for His Affairs.
You answered my questions last week, regarding my husband who cheated for 3 months and when I found out, told me “she” was the perfect girl. Once I moved out, he took everything back and …
My Husband Claims He Loves Me – But is Not in Love with Me.
My husband, whom I’ve been with for 14 years, and married to for 10 years, recently told me he has fallen out of love with me over the past two years. We’ve suffered five pregnancy …
How Do I Help My Wife End Her Emotional Affair?
My wife has been having an emotional affair with her boss. She confessed in our counselor’s office to having a crush on him, and that nothing I say or do can stop the way she …
How Do I Deal with a Serial Cheater?
How do I go on after finding out he cheated with over 50 women?!! He has a band. Married 32 yrs, then I find out he had been cheating the first 10 yrs. No major …
Is She Blinded By Her Feelings From the Affair, Or Are We Done with Our Marriage?
My wife is having an affair! I’m at my wit’s end. She has admitted to it being physical one time. That I would like to believe, but I can’t. The most destructive part is, she …
Can We Rebuild After Two One Night Stands?
My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. After our first child was born, things seemed to really go downhill. My husband confessed to me that he had a one-night stand. He …
Counseling Hasn’t Helped Me to Deal with His Affair
I might have understood a “random” affair. We had problems in our relationship, and I asked him to go for couple’s counseling, but he said no. Instead, the same time our youngest child left home …
Do You Think There’s Still Need to Worry?
My husband had an affair 5 1/2 years ago with a girl he met in the credential program when he returned to school. He was 34, and she was 20. The affair lasted for 5 …
