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Betrayed Spouse Q & A

How Can I Trust a Cheating Woman?

I have been in a committed relationship with my girlfriend for over two years. I’m in the U.S. Navy, and have been stationed in Guam for three years now. Prior to going here, I had to attend a 6-month school in Virginia that also had civilians in it who were going to be doing the same job as us, but in the civilian sector. This was where I met my girlfriend (she’s a civilian). She’s a really wonderful girl, and we hit it off immediately. We both moved to Guam after that, and continued to stay together. After about 9 months, she moved in with me. Our relationship was great, although  I did have to go out to sea for …

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How Do I Forgive Infidelity After Feeling Deserted?

After finding out recently that my husband of 25 years has had two long-term sexual relationships, I made a decision to file for divorce, as I can no longer trust nor live with him without trust. I don’t know how to handle my feelings and make sense of what happened. I have been going about my everyday life normally, but I am humiliated and feel like a complete fool. I’ve told no one else about this except my parents. Could you help me understand this and deal with the pain of abandonment in marriage, a hurt that has no bottom to it? Thank you for the opportunity to serve. To help answer your question, here are some tips on healing …

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Can He Be Trusted to Stay Faithful?

I just found out last week that my husband of 1 year and 3 months slept with my best friend twice, 3 1/2 months prior to us getting married. My heart is hurt and I am struggling to make the right decision if I should stay or go. My heart keeps saying that since it happened before we got married and took our vows, maybe it’s not AS bad. We were in a committed relationship, though, so does he get a second chance just because it was prior to us getting married? Please help… I love him with all my heart and I am a better person with him, but I am still shocked that he would do something like …

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I’m Haunted By the Images of Them Together

My fiancé and I started seeing each other 2 ½ years ago. We have a split family. He has a son who lives with us, I have 3 from my previous marriage and we have 1 together. We started seeing each other in Feb 2006. We both had ended our previous relationships in January, so we weren’t really “official”. We hit it off so well, we were like two peas in a pod. We moved in together in April, and 2 weeks later, his ex told me they’ve been sleeping together. I thought she was just angry and bitter, but my gut told me otherwise, so I asked him. He said he slept with her twice in the first few …

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Do You Think There’s Still Need to Worry?

My husband had an affair 5 1/2 years ago with a girl he met in the credential program when he returned to school. He was 34, and she was 20. The affair lasted for 5 months. I was pregnant and had our second child during this time. I found out about it from their exchanged emails. I asked him to stay and work it out, and he decided to stay with me and the kids. As far as I know, all communication and ties between them were cut. She got married, had kids and moved to another state. Now, 5 1/2 years later, I came across an email from her on his work email. I wasn’t able to read the …

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Counseling Hasn’t Helped Me to Deal with His Affair

I might have understood a “random” affair. We had problems in our relationship, and I asked him to go for couple’s counseling, but he said no. Instead, the same time our youngest child left home for college, my husband went back to the very same place where we began our relationship more than 20 years ago to have his affair. The same house for f*** sake!! I feel like he gave “her” all of our memories right from the start — he went to all the same places we did, with HER. He even got HER pregnant in the same place where our first child was conceived. She had a miscarriage, but he can’t understand why I’m still devastated that …

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Can We Rebuild After Two One Night Stands?

My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. After our first child was born, things seemed to really go downhill. My husband confessed to me that he had a one-night stand. He showed real remorse and begged me to give him another chance. We agreed to go to counseling, but in hindsight, it was pointless. It taught me nothing and never dealt with why things happened or how we could rebuild our marriage. After our second child was born, he again had a one-night stand, and this eventually led to our separation. Looking back, we both seemed to be not getting what we wanted from the marriage, but I did blame him. I was very controlling, treating …

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Is She Blinded By Her Feelings From the Affair, Or Are We Done with Our Marriage?

My wife is having an affair! I’m at my wit’s end. She has admitted to it being physical one time. That I would like to believe, but I can’t. The most destructive part is, she said our life together is over. She says she doesn’t love me. I’m at a loss. I don’t think she’s being honest. Yet, she keeps bringing up all the faults in our relationship. She’s still seeing the other man, yet tells me she’s not. How can I understand if she’s simply blinded by her feelings from the affair, or if she and I are genuinely done with our marriage? Thank you for the opportunity to serve. Let me say for the record how sorry I …

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Betrayed Spouse Q & A
I’m Haunted By the Images of Them Together

My fiancé and I started seeing each other 2 ½ years ago. We have a split family. He has a son who lives with us, …

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Betrayed Spouse Q & A
Can He Be Trusted to Stay Faithful?

I just found out last week that my husband of 1 year and 3 months slept with my best friend twice, 3 1/2 months prior …

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Betrayed Spouse Q & A
How Do I Forgive Infidelity After Feeling Deserted?

After finding out recently that my husband of 25 years has had two long-term sexual relationships, I made a decision to file for divorce, as …

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Betrayed Spouse Q & A
How Can I Trust a Cheating Woman?

I have been in a committed relationship with my girlfriend for over two years. I’m in the U.S. Navy, and have been stationed in Guam …

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