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  • Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    What Does this Other Woman See in My Husband?

    What does this other woman see in my man? He’s nothing to write home about. He’s an ex-convict, he’s not a financial catch, he lies, and he’s not shown himself to be trustworthy — either to me or to her — and yet, she still won’t leave him alone. I just don’t understand it. Thank

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Regressing Rather than Progressing

    I am struggling and I’ve had a rough week, even rougher than the week before. Since I came across your website, I read every single article and I still feel like there are so many more questions and issues that are unresolved at this point, I hardly know where to start. So I will begin

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    My Husband Cheated. Am I to Blame?

    For the last 3 months, my husband had been very distant, working late, not answering my phone calls. I feel that I was in denial about what he was doing. It is so unlike him to cheat that I just pushed that out of my head. Well, 2 weeks ago, he was sleeping and somebody

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Why Does My Wife’s Cheating Increase My Desires?

    My wife cheated on me years ago. At first, I gave her hell, then I got over it by enjoying the fact that she liked sex so much, she did it with someone else while I was away. For the last three years, I’ve been asking her to do it again. She hasn’t yet. Is

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    My Family Almost Disowned Me for Reconciling with My Husband.

    My husband and I have decided to work on our marriage, as it’s what we have always wanted but haven’t really known how to do. He has moved back home, we both go to individual counseling, and we see a counselor together who says we have come leaps and bounds in how we communicate together

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    I Feel Pressured to Forgive His Infidelity.

    My husband had an affair with one of his employees. Now, he’s pressuring me to forgive him and to not break up our family — as if it was me that would break our family. At first, I did tell him I forgive him, but now a little voice in the back of my head keeps saying

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    My Husband Wants Forgiveness for His Affairs.

    You answered my questions last week, regarding my husband who cheated for 3 months and when I found out, told me “she” was the perfect girl. Once I moved out, he took everything back and said he now wants to work things out. I know you answered why he reacted the way he did, and

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    My Husband Claims He Loves Me – But is Not in Love with Me.

    My husband, whom I’ve been with for 14 years, and married to for 10 years, recently told me he has fallen out of love with me over the past two years. We’ve suffered five pregnancy losses (two ectopic, three miscarriages) in the past 3 1/2 years. Until we started trying to have kids, and up until

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    How Do I Help My Wife End Her Emotional Affair?

    My wife has been having an emotional affair with her boss. She confessed in our counselor’s office to having a crush on him, and that nothing I say or do can stop the way she feels. She says she loves me, but she can’t help the strong feelings she has for him. After this confession,

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    How Do I Deal with a Serial Cheater?

    How do I go on after finding out he cheated with over 50 women?!! He has a band. Married 32 yrs, then I find out he had been cheating the first 10 yrs. No major complaints through our marriage, though. 3 children. He only had one night stands ‘cuz he didn’t want relationships with any

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    How Can I Trust a Cheating Woman?

    I have been in a committed relationship with my girlfriend for over two years. I’m in the U.S. Navy, and have been stationed in Guam for three years now. Prior to going here, I had to attend a 6-month school in Virginia that also had civilians in it who were going to be doing the

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  • Suzie Johnson Affair Recovery Q & A Blog
    America's Leading Affair Recovery Expert

    This blog is a non-judgmental and Love based conversation about how to deal with the after effects of infidelity using only positive strategies. If you are looking for a place to lash out, vent anger or spew hate, then this is not the place for you.

    My husband had an affair for 4 months. I was totally devastated and felt my whole world was destroyed.

    I decided to check the internet for help and found Suzie's website. I loved the fact that even though her website was free, it was so very informative. It truly was a wealth of information and answered a lot of questions that I had, and validated feelings that I was having. My husband found it also very helpful for himself.

    We were offered the 12-session private coaching course and found out about the cost. We decided this was something that would be incredibly helpful in…

    Robin K. (USA)

    What can I say? My life was in shambles and the slew of bad choices I had made left me empty and miserable. In trying to save my marriage, I came upon Suzie on the web, and it was as if someone had left a light on in the dark.

    Desperate for any help, I booked a session with Suzie. Just in that first hour, I knew I found the help my wife and I needed. It was as if she knew me. And her frankness and compassion made me feel at ease and open. More so, her philosophy and…

    Mathew C. (USA)

    Suzie Hi!

    Just a note to tell you that we are doing great since our 3-day weekend intensive with you.

    Mark has now much more “awareness” in all fields of his life: Me, Kids, Work and it is a real miracle to see him acting in a new way.

    Thank you!

    As for me, I am feeling safer and I am starting finally to relax and enjoy the renewed energy. Words can't tell you what a blessing you were/are to our lives.

    God Bless you.

    Missing you tons!

    Nadia

    Nadia L. (Singapore)

    I believe that nothing that happens in this world is a coincidence. It was by the grace of God that I found Suzie Johnson during one of the most challenging and difficult experiences of my life.

    My husband of 15 years betrayed my trust by having sex with another woman whom he had known for only a couple of days. I found out in a very shocking and hurtful way and was suffering tremendous emotional and mental pain when I found Suzie Johnson’s website. I was desperately scouring the internet for information about how to deal with infidelity when I…

    Janee L. (USA)

    The day I discovered my husband had been cheating on me was the day I thought my entire life was over. We had only been married for 7 months. The pure shock of that moment struck me like a bolt of lightning. Although the chances of being hit by lightning are much more slim.

    My first reaction was obviously: divorce.

    That's the only option at that moment, right? Well, not exactly.

    After the initial bolt of electricity runs through your body, you have to realize that you can survive after going through such a traumatic experience. You just can't go through it…

    Karen W. (USA)

    We are months into the process, but new to Suzie. For the first time I feel like we can survive and be better.

    Barry W.

    Suzie, You were amazing yesterday in focusing on his charisma awareness! He looooved the Skype couple's session.

    You are such an inspiration! 

    I love you dearest Suzie 😉 

    Mmmwah! 

    Natalia P.