If you’re married and cheating, or you’ve had an extramarital affair sometime in the past, rather than beat yourself up, throw tantrums, blame circumstances or stage another pity party… I challenge you to search for your motives, and let this experience become a journey of self-discovery.

Perhaps one of the most gut-wrenching questions... One of the most gut-wrenching questions is: Can my marriage survive infidelity? And if you’ve been pondering that question yourself, you are not alone.But ponder no more. In this article, not only will I give you my definitive answer to that question, but I will also tell you what the infidelity statistics predict. Heads up. (It’s not great news.)Plus,..

Can Your Marriage Survive an Affair? Today, your relationship is at a turning point. Infidelity can be both a crisis and a crossroad. You owe it to each other (your families and yourself) to sit down (without blame) and have a real frank, heart-to-heart discussion about your situation. What Do You Really Want? To me, "relationship happiness" isn't random or accidental. I don't believe that..

Why are so many people blindsided by infidelity? Why do so many betrayed partners never see it coming? Looking back, we ask ourselves: were there signs, red flags, glaring evidence we should have seen coming? The answer is almost always: Yes and No.

What are the Stages of Infidelity and How Do You Survive An Affair? That’s the question this article answers. According to statistics… only one-third of marriages survive extramarital affairs. (The numbers are better for those who seek professional help.) So, if you really want to know how you survive an affair, first we must look at: What causes infidelity in the first place?

If you’re having trouble trusting after betrayal from someone you love… then chances are pretty good that many (if not all) of these have questions have run through your mind. Here are seven frequently asked questions about trusting again after betrayal.

We’re going to talk candidly about one of the most significant issues facing all committed couples: sexual happiness. To be sure much has been written about sexual satisfaction in committed relationships and how it affects loyalty and fidelity. I’m going to take a slightly different approach because I believe…

Dear Suzie, I want to rebuild my marriage, but I’m afraid of being blindsided again. I know things have to change, but I’m not sure which things. Should I be stricter with him? Or should we just let go and let whatever is going to happen, happen?

Dear Suzie, My husband and I have decided we want to rebuild our marriage and go through the steps of reconciliation. We both want things to be different (better) than they were before the affair. We just don’t know where to start and what we need to focus on. Do you have any suggestions?