Hi Suzie, my name is Cecile and I am from France, originally but I live in Ireland. My partner recently found out that I had an affair around the time our daughter was born and he's willing to reconcile.But he's saying that any reminder of that time (like photos from when my daughter was small) is really painful for him.And he cannot look back at that period of our life without suffering. And he would like some (we would like some) idea of what we can do about this. Thanks! First of all, thank you, Cecile, for taking the time to share your question with our community and reaching out for the help you guys need. You're in a challenging situation. I feel it for you and I feel it for your partner for what you guys are going through.A couple of things come to mind right away.One being that I don't know the timeline, so I don't know where we are in terms of when this happened. (And today...I don't know whether you're three months in, six months in or one year in...So I'm just going to give you the general information).It takes about 18 months from any kind..
Hi, Suzie. My name is Olivia, from London, England.My husband had an emotional affair that turned into a sexual affair with a friend. I have been going through your betrayed recovery course and have found it to be very helpful. I do have a question that isn't specifically addressed in your course.My husband has shown remorse and would like to reconcile with me, but his..
Hey Suzie.My name is Stephen, from San Diego.My wife was in an affair with a man she worked with for almost five months before I found out.After separating…She then continued to be involved in the relationship for another three months before we both decided to get back together to try to make our marriage work.We've done a lot of work and talked through everything. So..
My name is Cassie. I would rather not say where I'm from and try to remain anonymous. My question is this:This man is good to me...…and treats me so good and has always been such a good dad to our children, and almost has this second life that he can't seem to not do. I can't even trust him to go to work now. I..
Hello, Suzie. My name is Eric, from Michigan.I've been reading your website for a few days. I'm in a gay marriage. We've been married for five years, together for eight. My husband has cheated on me a lot in the past, which I found out about in the first three years of our marriage.We worked through it.We came up with rules to make sure cheating..
Hi, Suzie. My name is Gem and I'm calling from Australia.I have been involved in an emotional affair online for almost a year. It was with someone that I knew 10 years ago, and we never got together then, because the timing wasn't right. I had just broken up with one of his best friends. And even though we both liked each other, it was..
Hello, Suzie. My name is Sylvia Young, from Phoenix.I need help healing. My husband passed away five years ago. Then about eight months ago, I learned about an affair and that he had been posting on dating sites. We were married for forty-six years. I knew he was not perfect. He had a horrible childhood and I stood by him through so many things. He..