SIGNS OF INFIDELITY
IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON A
COLLISION COURSE WITH INFIDELITY?
11 THINGS TO WATCH OUT FOR
All monogamous relationships are vulnerable to infidelity.
No marriage is immune. That’s why honesty is still the best defense. Couples who enjoy open communication are usually better able to detect and prevent behaviors that encourage infidelity.
The following are a list of some thoughts, feelings and behaviors that can lead to extra marital affairs. This list is by no means complete. It is simply a representation of some of the more common contributors we see here at Infidelity Helpline.
1. Feelings of Powerlessness: Not being able to ask for (and get) the kind of love, support and attention you want from your relationship.
2. Fading Feelings of Love: Unhappiness with your mate. Feeling envious of other “happy couples”. (Whether justified or not.)
3. Decline of Passion: Great friends, but not great lovers. Loss of libido, sexual desire and attraction.
4. Rigid Routines: Heavy schedules resulting in loss of fun, playfulness or adult time.
5. Attention Decline: Not enough time, attention and focus on growing your relationship.
6. Never-ending Arguments: Same topic – different day. Inability to argue without anger, criticism or personal attacks.
7. Mental / Emotional Control: Using threats, pressure, repeated mentions of “the “D” word (divorce); using sex as punishment / reward for obedience or compliance.
8. Secret Sexual Interests: Toward people outside of the relationship; harboring secret fetishes or fantasies about another sexual orientation – things you feel you can’t share with your partner.
9. Chronic Doubts: Internal questions like: Did I make the right choice? Are we going to make it? Is he / she the right one for me?
10. Inhibited Growth: Refusal to try new things, rigidity and narrowness toward sex, change and new experiences.
11. Taking Your Partner for Granted: Feeling you know each other so well, there’s nothing “new” to explore or discover.
The lesson here is: Monogamy comes with certain pitfalls you have to be aware of. Boredom and insecurity are the two biggest -- and yet they are not to be feared.
Look at it this way.
When you commit to monogamy, you adopt a certain set of exclusive rules. It’s the same as if you were going adopt a pet tiger. You would want (and need) to learn two things:
1) The nature of tigers.
2) How to tame them.
Taming the twin forces of boredom and insecurity (within yourself and your relationship) gives you an unbeatable advantage.
To assume you will never become bored or restless within a relationship is like assuming that a tiger that lives at home is a house cat.
The time to face this irrefutable fact is right NOW.
Romantic love, as engrossing and as overwhelming as it is, does not protect us against our boredom and insecurities.
Those are things we have to tame within ourselves.
So let me ask you,
Are you willing To Make A Small Investment of your time in order to Infidelity-Proof Your Marriage?
If you are… then I encourage you to book a private consultation to talk with me. Let me share with you the secrets, tips, techniques and strategies to infidelity-proof any relationship. At the end of the day, awareness and knowledge spells the difference between couples who NEVER have to experience the pain of infidelity and those that wind up going through it time and time again. Book your Free 30 minute consultation now.
Until we speak again,
Remember... Love Wins!
P. S. If you (or someone you love) is struggling with boredom, stagnation or a sense of restlessness within a monogamous relationship, there ARE many, many things you can do. All you have to do is be willing to ASK FOR HELP. You will never regret it.
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