SIGNS OF INFIDELITY
8 Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse
 Infidelity Warning Sign # 4 — Time
One definition of telling the truth is telling the “facts”.
This means if you are asked a specific question like…
”Where were you on Valentine’s night between 6pm and 10pm?"
The answer can truthfully be stated as…
“I was at the office.”
What might be “omitted” is relevant information like...
“So was my coworker Natasha, and the project we were working on involved skillful removal of her undergarments.”
Most affairs take time.
The deeper the affair gets, the more time it consumes. Time unaccounted for is usually where most cheaters leave the biggest and most damaging amount of evidence.
Why is this?
Because in order for a clandestine relationship to happen you need three things:
Time, effort and opportunity.
There are only 24 hours in a day, many of which are accounted for in our daily routines (e.g. sleep, work, commuting, meal times, kids’ soccer practice, etc.)
Having an affair means something has to change in the cheater’s time line.
They have to “make the time” to create the “opportunities.” When something unusual disrupts that routine, it’s not that hard to notice.
CLASSIC SIGNS OF TIME LINE CHANGES
- Working late with no overtime pay increases to prove it.
- Unusually high automobile mileage.
- Time spent on “girls’ night out” except you don’t know these girls.
- Errands to the store that take three times as long as usual.
- They are out of “sick” days and you can’t remember the last time they were sick.
- Hotel bills vs. expense account records that don’t match.
- Business trips that suddenly get “extended”.
What causes a cheating spouse to pull away? read page 5 of 8
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THE WARNING SIGNS 
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