SIGNS OF INFIDELITY
8 Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse
 Red Flag # 3 — Acts of Secrecy
There is one word commonly associated with infidelity.
Secrecy.
Since infidelity is based on deception and dishonesty, wayward partners must do everything in their power to “protect” their secret and avoid getting caught at all costs.
You wouldn't believe the stories I've heard over the years. (People can get very creative when they want to.)
For example...
A pilot called into our office last week, desperately wanting to speak me about his wife's online affair.
He told me...
"It was her Secretive behavior that tipped me off. I knew something was going on because she was running from room to room with her laptop.
But one day, she had accidentally left the bathroom door unlocked. I walked in on her while she was sitting on the toilet with her chatting on her laptop.
Trying to “avoid” being caught is usually what leads to them being caught.
Think about it. People who have something to hide are bound to behave differently than those who are hiding nothing.
Keeping secrets from someone you live with requires hyper-defensiveness, a guarded attitude and vigilance in order to keep the secret safe.
Of course, this eventually leads to telltale changes in behavior that usually gives the cheater away.
Classic Examples of “Secret Protection” Behavior
- Closing dialogue windows or hitting the “Delete” key on the
computer when you walk in the room.
- Erasing computer history after every use.
- Changing the password protection on computer.
- Email accounts you have no idea about.
- New cell phone.
- Unexplained purchases on credit card.
- Coming home late because they "just lost track of time".
- ATM withdrawals at unusual locations.
- You can't find your partner’s cell phone bills or credit card statements.
- Receiving mysterious phone calls from “unknown” numbers and/or unfamiliar coworkers.
Where does a cheating spouse reveal incriminating evidence? read page 4 of 8
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THE WARNING SIGNS 
OF INFIDELITY
