SIGNS OF INFIDELITY
8 Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse
 Red Flag # 2 —Shifts in Behavior
Another big clue your partner is keeping a secret is when they have a noticeable "shift" in their behavior, interests or attitude.
Keeping in mind that many things can cause a person’s behavior to shift. It's not always infidelity. It could be things like a new job, relocation, menopause, illness, financial stress, etc. But when there are no obvious reasons (and when everything else is relatively calm) shifts in behavior become a big red flag.
All people do develop "patterns" of behavior.
Naturally, after living with another person for a long period of time, most of us will begin to learn (and "pickup") on our partner's patterns.
This happens on both a conscious (and subconscious) level. When people begin acting differently with no apparent reason, there is usually a hidden reason.
What follows are examples of some noticeable changes in behavior that clued some of our clients in on the fact that their partner was cheating.
CLASSIC CHEATERS’ BEHAVIOUR
- Staying up late and on the computer for hours.
- A new, unfamiliar hobby.
- Noticeable mood swings (being short-tempered, distant, defensive).
- Acting differently towards family and friends (being vague, distracted, or "in their own world")
- Suddenly developing a Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde personality (one minute being more attentive to you, the next minute being mean or cold for no apparent reason).
- New interest in exercise, diet, fashion, colognes or perfumes.
- Being overly earnest (having a sudden willingness to run errands, when they usually would not).
- Hyper attention to personal hygiene (carrying breath fresheners, gum, mints, etc.)
- Higher than normal desire for sex (including new sense of adventurousness.)
- Little or NO desire for sex (often blaming stress, finances, deadlines, or work-related excuses).
How far are people willing to go? read page 3 of 8
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