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Three years ago, I had passionate sex with a married man (I'm also married). It was the kind of sex and attraction that was out of this world — one that left me craving for more. And so be it. We have caught up yearly since then. This made me fall for him even more… and he now tells me that he just can't see me anymore because the guilt is killing him, but that I have left him with some very fond memories. Do you think he will be back for more? Thank you for the opportunity to serve.I admit, I am curious about the motive behind your question. For example, are you wondering if he will come back for more… based on the ego’s desire to be “irresistible”, and the proof being he simply “can’t help” but come back for more? Or are you wondering if he will come back for more because you want some closure? Since I can’t know for sure which it is for you, let’s take a look at both — starting with the ego’s desire to be irresistible.Here’s the thing…Sex within affairs can be extremely intense, exciting and exhilarating — like the first time you skydive....
I'm the wayward spouse needing help to understand. It's been about 8 weeks since D-Day. The first few weeks we were working together on the pain and recovery, but about 4 weeks ago, it was like a light switch went off. She has since told...
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I am in my early 30's and in a deeply loving and healthy relationship for the first time in my life. The sex is amazing, and my significant other completely “gets” me to the point where words don't always need to be spoken. It's everything...
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This blog is a non-judgmental and love-based conversation about how to deal with the after effects of infidelity. If you are looking for a place to lash out, vent anger or spew hate, this is not the place for you.

My husband had an affair for 4 months. I was totally devastated and felt my whole world was destroyed.

I decided to check the internet for help and found Suzie's website. I loved the fact that even though her website was free, it was so very informative. It truly was a wealth of information and answered a lot of questions that I had, and validated feelings that I was having. My husband found it also very helpful for himself.

We were offered the 12-session private coaching course and found out about the cost. We decided this was something that would be incredibly helpful in…

Robin K. (USA)

What can I say? My life was in shambles and the slew of bad choices I had made left me empty and miserable. In trying to save my marriage, I came upon Suzie on the web, and it was as if someone had left a light on in the dark.

Desperate for any help, I booked a session with Suzie. Just in that first hour, I knew I found the help my wife and I needed. It was as if she knew me. And her frankness and compassion made me feel at ease and open. More so, her philosophy and…

Mathew C. (USA)

Suzie Hi!

Just a note to tell you that we are doing great since our 3-day weekend intensive with you.

Mark has now much more “awareness” in all fields of his life: Me, Kids, Work and it is a real miracle to see him acting in a new way.

Thank you!

As for me, I am feeling safer and I am starting finally to relax and enjoy the renewed energy. Words can't tell you what a blessing you were/are to our lives.

God Bless you.

Missing you tons!


Nadia L. (Singapore)

I believe that nothing that happens in this world is a coincidence. It was by the grace of God that I found Suzie Johnson during one of the most challenging and difficult experiences of my life.

My husband of 15 years betrayed my trust by having sex with another woman whom he had known for only a couple of days. I found out in a very shocking and hurtful way and was suffering tremendous emotional and mental pain when I found Suzie Johnson’s website. I was desperately scouring the internet for information about how to deal with infidelity when I…

Janee L. (USA)

The day I discovered my husband had been cheating on me was the day I thought my entire life was over. We had only been married for 7 months. The pure shock of that moment struck me like a bolt of lightning. Although the chances of being hit by lightning are much more slim.

My first reaction was obviously: divorce.

That's the only option at that moment, right? Well, not exactly.

After the initial bolt of electricity runs through your body, you have to realize that you can survive after going through such a traumatic experience. You just can't go through it…

Karen W. (USA)

We are months into the process, but new to Suzie. For the first time I feel like we can survive and be better.

Barry W.

Suzie, You were amazing yesterday in focusing on his charisma awareness! He looooved the Skype couple's session.

You are such an inspiration! 

I love you dearest Suzie 😉 


Natalia P.