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  • Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    How Do I Forgive Infidelity After Feeling Deserted?

    After finding out recently that my husband of 25 years has had two long-term sexual relationships, I made a decision to file for divorce, as I can no longer trust nor live with him without trust. I don’t know how to handle my feelings and make sense of what happened. I have been going about

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Can He Be Trusted to Stay Faithful?

    I just found out last week that my husband of 1 year and 3 months slept with my best friend twice, 3 1/2 months prior to us getting married. My heart is hurt and I am struggling to make the right decision if I should stay or go. My heart keeps saying that since it

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    I’m Haunted By the Images of Them Together

    My fiancé and I started seeing each other 2 ½ years ago. We have a split family. He has a son who lives with us, I have 3 from my previous marriage and we have 1 together. We started seeing each other in Feb 2006. We both had ended our previous relationships in January, so

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Do You Think There’s Still Need to Worry?

    My husband had an affair 5 1/2 years ago with a girl he met in the credential program when he returned to school. He was 34, and she was 20. The affair lasted for 5 months. I was pregnant and had our second child during this time. I found out about it from their exchanged

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Counseling Hasn’t Helped Me to Deal with His Affair

    I might have understood a “random” affair. We had problems in our relationship, and I asked him to go for couple’s counseling, but he said no. Instead, the same time our youngest child left home for college, my husband went back to the very same place where we began our relationship more than 20 years

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    Betrayed Spouse Q & A
    Suzie Johnson

    Can We Rebuild After Two One Night Stands?

    My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. After our first child was born, things seemed to really go downhill. My husband confessed to me that he had a one-night stand. He showed real remorse and begged me to give him another chance. We agreed to go to counseling, but in hindsight,

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  • Suzie Johnson Affair Recovery Q & A Blog
    America's Leading Affair Recovery Expert

    This blog is a non-judgmental and Love based conversation about how to deal with the after effects of infidelity using only positive strategies. If you are looking for a place to lash out, vent anger or spew hate, then this is not the place for you.

    My husband had an affair for 4 months. I was totally devastated and felt my whole world was destroyed.

    I decided to check the internet for help and found Suzie's website. I loved the fact that even though her website was free, it was so very informative. It truly was a wealth of information and answered a lot of questions that I had, and validated feelings that I was having. My husband found it also very helpful for himself.

    We were offered the 12-session private coaching course and found out about the cost. We decided this was something that would be incredibly helpful in…

    Robin K. (USA)

    What can I say? My life was in shambles and the slew of bad choices I had made left me empty and miserable. In trying to save my marriage, I came upon Suzie on the web, and it was as if someone had left a light on in the dark.

    Desperate for any help, I booked a session with Suzie. Just in that first hour, I knew I found the help my wife and I needed. It was as if she knew me. And her frankness and compassion made me feel at ease and open. More so, her philosophy and…

    Mathew C. (USA)

    Suzie Hi!

    Just a note to tell you that we are doing great since our 3-day weekend intensive with you.

    Mark has now much more “awareness” in all fields of his life: Me, Kids, Work and it is a real miracle to see him acting in a new way.

    Thank you!

    As for me, I am feeling safer and I am starting finally to relax and enjoy the renewed energy. Words can't tell you what a blessing you were/are to our lives.

    God Bless you.

    Missing you tons!


    Nadia L. (Singapore)

    I believe that nothing that happens in this world is a coincidence. It was by the grace of God that I found Suzie Johnson during one of the most challenging and difficult experiences of my life.

    My husband of 15 years betrayed my trust by having sex with another woman whom he had known for only a couple of days. I found out in a very shocking and hurtful way and was suffering tremendous emotional and mental pain when I found Suzie Johnson’s website. I was desperately scouring the internet for information about how to deal with infidelity when I…

    Janee L. (USA)

    The day I discovered my husband had been cheating on me was the day I thought my entire life was over. We had only been married for 7 months. The pure shock of that moment struck me like a bolt of lightning. Although the chances of being hit by lightning are much more slim.

    My first reaction was obviously: divorce.

    That's the only option at that moment, right? Well, not exactly.

    After the initial bolt of electricity runs through your body, you have to realize that you can survive after going through such a traumatic experience. You just can't go through it…

    Karen W. (USA)

    We are months into the process, but new to Suzie. For the first time I feel like we can survive and be better.

    Barry W.

    Suzie, You were amazing yesterday in focusing on his charisma awareness! He looooved the Skype couple's session.

    You are such an inspiration! 

    I love you dearest Suzie 😉 


    Natalia P.