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Should I Tell His Wife About Our Affair?

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Affair partner Q&A

Dear Suzie,

I have been having an affair (I am single with children) with a married man (also with children) on and off for 3.5 years. I have no illusion that he will leave her for me. I am realistic and know it’s just good sex for him (with me). I have had a couple of other “proper” (and faithful) relationships in that time but never stopped thinking about the other guy. It’s been that way (as in on/off) because I go through all those stages you write about as far as knowing right from wrong, ceasing, enabling him, etc. But like many other women, part of me loves this man. I also go through the inner turmoil of deciding whether to let his wife know or not. We live in the same area, and I know some of the same people he knows — six degrees of separation and all that even though we met by chance. So I guess that is my question: should I tell his wife about our affair, anonymously or otherwise?

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Why Didn’t I Just Walk Away When I Found Out He Was Married?

Dear Suzie, I felt like a fool when I found out he was married. But like an idiot, I stayed with him. Why didn’t I just walk away? I’m so confused and disgusted with myself. What do I do now? Did you know that the fool has always played an …

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What if I never meet somebody who makes me feel this again?
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What If I Never Meet Somebody Who Makes Me Feel This Again?

Dear Suzie, Something inside is telling me that I shouldn’t stay with him, but I think I really love this man. Suzie, what if I never meet anyone who makes me feel like this ever again? Be careful. You don’t want to confuse drama for love. If you get high …

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How do I stop getting back into the affair with him?
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How Do I Stop Getting Back into the Affair With Him?

Dear Suzie, I’ve been having an affair for the last two years with a married man. I have ended it and gone back more times than I can count. I feel like giving up, but these feelings are too strong. What can I do to stop running back to him …

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Should I tell him why I ended our affair?
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Should I Tell Him Why I Ended Our Affair?

Dear Suzie, I abruptly ended the affair a few weeks ago. Now I feel like I should talk to him and explain why. Do you think this is a good idea? Here’s something I want you to understand: affairs have no etiquette and no protocols. They don’t come with privileges, and those …

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Could Our Affair Be a Special Affair That Works?

Dear Suzie, He promised that he’s being honest with me. I see no reason why he wouldn’t be, but I’m afraid to believe him. I really do believe he is in a no-win situation at home. Isn’t it possible that his situation is different? Here’s the thing: A big part …

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