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Suzie Johnson, cpc

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Should I Tell His Wife About Our Affair?

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Affair partner Q&A

Dear Suzie,

I have been having an affair (I am single with children) with a married man (also with children) on and off for 3.5 years. I have no illusion that he will leave her for me. I am realistic and know it’s just good sex for him (with me). I have had a couple of other “proper” (and faithful) relationships in that time but never stopped thinking about the other guy. It’s been that way (as in on/off) because I go through all those stages you write about as far as knowing right from wrong, ceasing, enabling him, etc. But like many other women, part of me loves this man. I also go through the inner turmoil of deciding whether to let his wife know or not. We live in the same area, and I know some of the same people he knows — six degrees of separation and all that even though we met by chance. So I guess that is my question: should I tell his wife about our affair, anonymously or otherwise?

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