Dear Suzie, He swept me off my feet. He made me feel things I never thought I would ever feel. Because of being with him, I discovered that romance is very important for me. I almost wish I had not discovered this part of myself again. It was buried for..
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For the Affair Partner
Suzie, I have been trying to end the affair for months now. But every time I try, I just can't seem to do it. He makes me feel so good; I just have a hard time believing that something that feels so good can be wrong. I know he's the..
Dear Reader,The elders of a Native American tribe once advised, “Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his moccasins.”I believe that piece of wisdom is as important today as it was back then. So, it's with a spirit of non-judgment that I answer 5 questions sent in by affair partners.....
Dear Suzie, Please help! I have tried time and time again to end the affair. Each time I think it's over, something happens. He calls or emails, and before I know it, I am right back where I started. What can I do to end it permanently once and for all?..
Dear Suzie, Ever since the affair ended, I've been left with a tremendous fear of being alone. I'm scared that I'll never be loved again. I've lost faith in myself. My heart is heavy all the time. Suzie, how can I once again be the happy, lighthearted, carefree person I..
Dear Reader,What follows is a collection of some of the most frequently asked (and most important) questions I've gotten from affair partners over the years. You've probably asked yourself at least a few of these questions, and I'm here to help you answer them. Hopefully, you'll read some words of..
Dear Suzie, About 18 months ago, I went to my best friend's bachelorette party in Las Vegas. I got drunk and ended up having oral sex with one of the male strippers. I told my husband about it the very next day. He's already forgiven me and begged me to let..
Dear Suzie, Two months ago, I had an affair with a married man who goes to my church. I knew what I was doing was wrong, but I felt so madly in love with him. I threw caution to the wind and went ahead anyway. Now that it's over, I feel..
This is the third time I have ended my affair. I told myself I would not go back. But late at night, when I am alone, I find that I want to text him, call him or just reach out to him. I can't seem to remember why I ended..
Dear Suzie, Last night I slept so badly that this morning, I woke up exhausted. I finally thought to myself, “Enough is enough! I'm tired of the lies. I'm tired of the promises and all the waiting around. I've had enough sadness, enough guilt. I'm done riding this crazy train...