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Why does this man make me feel so weak?
Affair Partner Q & A

Why Does This Man Make Me Feel So Weak?

Dear Suzie, I don’t think I’m strong enough to let him go. This man knows exactly how to make my knees weak. I can’t seem to resist him. He lies and I believe him. What’s going on? Falling in love with a married man isn’t a weak choice. (It’s just not a smart one.) The real question here is this… Why are you so ready (and willing) to believe you are weak? Could it be that holding to this belief that you’re weak… is simply an excuse to act weak? (Something to consider.) Here’s the thing… I don’t believe for one second that you’re a weak person. And I know for a fact that True Love doesn’t make you feel weak. In fact, it …

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Why didn't I just walk away when I found out he was married?
Affair Partner Q & A

Why Didn’t I Just Walk Away When I Found Out He Was Married?

Dear Suzie, I felt like a fool when I found out he was married. But like an idiot, I stayed with him. Why didn’t I just walk away? I’m so confused and disgusted with myself. What do I do now? Did you know that the fool has always played an important role in history? That’s right. In fact, in medieval times, the fool provided the entertainment, the laughs, and the jokes (at the expense of their own pride). So why did they do it? Well, there are payoffs to playing the fool. There’s the fame, the fortune, and of course, they got a lot of attention. (Personally, I think playing the fool is a heavy price to pay for attention.) Here’s something to consider: …

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What if I never meet somebody who makes me feel this again?
Affair Partner Q & A

What If I Never Meet Somebody Who Makes Me Feel This Again?

Dear Suzie, Something inside is telling me that I shouldn’t stay with him, but I think I really love this man. Suzie, what if I never meet anyone who makes me feel like this ever again? Be careful. You don’t want to confuse drama for love. If you get high when you’re with him and feel down when you’re not, you’re living in a soap opera. Don’t mistake that for a real relationship. It’s not.  And just the fact that you’re asking me this question tells me that your intuition knows this isn’t the right relationship for you. I suggest you listen to your intuition. Your intuition is that part of you that’s advising you not to sell yourself short. It’s …

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We are in love. How could this be wrong?
Affair Partner Q & A

We Are in Love. How Could This Be Wrong?

Dear Suzie, I just can’t seem to say no to him. I feel like I have no will of my own. I feel like such a worthless person for letting this happen. I used to be one of those people who were against this kind of thing. In fact, I …

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Isn't seeing him sometimes better than nothing?
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Isn’t Seeing Him Sometimes Better Than Nothing?

Dear Suzie, I only get to see the married man I am involved with a few days a month when I go to our headquarters for business. But I have told myself that the few hours we spend together will be enough. Isn’t this better than nothing at all? Compromise …

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Could our affair be a special affair that works?
Affair Partner Q & A

Could Our Affair Be a Special Affair That Works?

Dear Suzie, He promised that he’s being honest with me. I see no reason why he wouldn’t be, but I’m afraid to believe him. I really do believe he is in a no-win situation at home. Isn’t it possible that his situation is different? Here’s the thing: A big part …

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Should I tell him why I ended our affair?
Affair Partner Q & A

Should I Tell Him Why I Ended Our Affair?

Dear Suzie, I abruptly ended the affair a few weeks ago. Now I feel like I should talk to him and explain why. Do you think this is a good idea? Here’s something I want you to understand: affairs have no etiquette and no protocols. They don’t come with privileges, and those …

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How do I stop getting back into the affair with him?
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How Do I Stop Getting Back into the Affair With Him?

Dear Suzie, I’ve been having an affair for the last two years with a married man. I have ended it and gone back more times than I can count. I feel like giving up, but these feelings are too strong. What can I do to stop running back to him …

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What if I never meet somebody who makes me feel this again?
Affair Partner Q & A

What If I Never Meet Somebody Who Makes Me Feel This Again?

Dear Suzie, Something inside is telling me that I shouldn’t stay with him, but I think I really love this man. Suzie, what if I never meet anyone who makes me feel like this ever again? Be careful. You don’t want to confuse drama for love. If you get high …

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Why didn't I just walk away when I found out he was married?
Affair Partner Q & A

Why Didn’t I Just Walk Away When I Found Out He Was Married?

Dear Suzie, I felt like a fool when I found out he was married. But like an idiot, I stayed with him. Why didn’t I just walk away? I’m so confused and disgusted with myself. What do I do now? Did you know that the fool has always played an …

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Why does this man make me feel so weak?
Affair Partner Q & A

Why Does This Man Make Me Feel So Weak?

Dear Suzie, I don’t think I’m strong enough to let him go. This man knows exactly how to make my knees weak. I can’t seem to resist him. He lies and I believe him. What’s going on? Falling in love with a married man isn’t a weak choice. (It’s just …

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Why is our connection so overpowering?
Affair Partner Q & A

Why Is Our Connection So Overpowering?

Dear Suzie, We have a magnetic connection. Every time we walk by each other, there’s a powerful energy. Why are we so drawn to each other? Why do we get electric shocks of energy every time we stand near each other? Why do we make each other laugh and feel …

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Why should I just let his wife win?
Affair Partner Q & A

Why Should I Just Let His Wife Win?

Dear Suzie, Why should I move over and let his wife win, when I am the one who loves him and treats him like gold? I feel like we deserve to be together. Our love deserves a chance. His wife deserves to lose him. She doesn’t care about him. She …

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