I used to fly off the handle FIRST then calm down after
Suzie... Pat yourself on the back... I am not dependent on anyone and although lonely... Can happily survive on my own... This was never the case before coaching. I want Linda to be okay more than anything... I want her to want us and our family but I now know I can and will survive if we split up. I have looked after family, business, food, school, ironing, etc etc... Not perfect but work hard and can survive. I WANT Linda but don't NEED her... This is thanks to Suzie and my hard work (Alec takes some credit lol). That said... I love Linda... Never understood how much until all this so actually although the worst time of my life.... I know I am a survivor. I have more friends now I have coped and succeeded at being a dad I support the wife without smothering I listen... Not dictate And as Linda said last night... I used to fly off the handle FIRST then calm down after... Now I think before action. Thanks Suzie... Don't worry... I also take credit... but just want you to know that you showed me how to do it.
1. Never violate free will
2. Never cause harm to others
3. Everything is a choice
4. People need to decide for themselves
5. Dolphin effect
6. I don't always know best.... Different people process differently
7. Listen.... Understand and don't judge
Thanks Suzie x
Suzie is amazing
Suzie is amazing. If she can't get through to someone I don't think anyone can.
We were very awestruck
Suzie was amazing! We were very awestruck actually conversing with her after spending so much of our recent life listening to her voice through our Marriage Rehab lessons. We found her session very helpful and thought provoking, so much so that I have just booked a Skype session towards the end of the month. Thank you again for all you and Suzie do!
We are still together, and madly in love once again!
Hi Suzie! You may not remember us, but we (Jack and Nora) were the cattle ranching couple from Colorado. We purchased your Marriage Rehab and did a session with you about a year ago. We are still together, and madly in love once again! If it is possible, we would love to briefly Skype with you sometime to say THANK YOU "in person" (but we don't want to take up any of your valuable time from other couples who need you). If not, we want to say you are incredible (!) and you helped us to get back in touch with our authentic selves so we could get our marriage back on track. Thank you, thank you, thank you. God bless!
Suzie's Betrayed Recovery coaching program is life changing for me
Just so you know your Betrayed Recovery coaching program is life changing for me and I'd like to do a session with Suzie... how do I do that?
It’s the first time in a long time I feel secure with myself and our relationship
Thank you so much for all you’ve done for us. I really don’t know if we could have gotten through these tough times without you and your programs. Brooke has been loving and nice to me and there have been no awkward discussions about the past. We are communicating much better at work and at home. She deserves a lot of praise. I’ve tried to do so all week. I know there’s still work to do, but I’m ready for it. It’s the first time in a long time I feel secure with myself and our relationship and it really feels like I’m living more in the moment and not so much in the past or future. I can’t say thank you enough... coach. 🙂 As Brooke has said before, you truly are our angel. Have a great weekend!
Suzie WILL help you
For all of the men out there who have stumbled across these words because you are thinking of having an affair or are in one now, this isn’t just by chance. You are here because you are supposed to be. If you love your wife and yourself and your family like I do, stop and think about what is real in your life and what you really want. It may be that you don’t know right now and that is okay but I promise you that if you talk to Suzie just once, you will have a different opinion about your wife and yourself and your life!
There is a world of things that make us think we have to be like or act like someone or something else but if you are ever going to be a man of independence and know your place in your world, educate yourself and find yourself. You will find honesty and forgiveness in yourself, your wife and even others.
The truth is hard but when you live transparently, you are truly a free soul and the best friend and husband. The day my wife learned the truth about my affair was the best worst day ever. It was the worst because there was so much pain in her eyes and heart. It was the best because it was the first day of our new life together. The pain is not gone but we handle it together openly and honestly. Inside of you is a man you may not even know yet but he is there and he is free and he is great. Suzie WILL help you find that man. I love her for guiding me through this crucial stage of my marriage and life and the best is yet to come! Thanks Suzie.
You truly are a phenomenal person and coach
Hi Suzie! I wanted to thank you so very much for our call last Tuesday. It REALLY was helpful in a number of ways. You just don’t know. Thank you again for all that you do. Our sessions have been more valuable than I can express. You truly are a phenomenal person and coach. (and that's from me and Matthew)
Nothing has been as helpful as Suzie's sessions
We want to share our story and let people know that Suzie's coaching and courses have been very very helpful to both of us. Twenty-three years of marriage to an exec who had a 3 1/2 year affair with a much younger woman at work. He wanted out after 2 years but thought I'd leave him if I found out so she manipulated him by saying she'd tell me and our children. She said she'd leave him alone if he'd give her a child, which he did (sounds ridiculous when spoken aloud). She told me in December via a text which she denied and then proceeded to tell our children two weeks later. My daughter had an amazing relationship with her father and she now can barely speak to him she's so angry. I am trying to get her to listen too but so far she is unwilling. I agreed to stay with my husband and I was stuck in a roller coaster of pain. He has done everything right since the minute I found out and I knew if I could let go of the pain we would have a very happy future, easier said than done. After listening to Suzie's session on forgiveness multiple times (while running, in car, on airplane) I feel as if my despair is gone and can see a happy future. Sorry for the whole story but while I'm sure all affair stories are very painful I feel as if the child, length of time of the affair, and the attack on my family was brutal and I had so much anger and hurt. The sessions are also helping my husband forgive himself. We have gotten through this alone (no one in our families know). We both did go to therapy but nothing has been as helpful as Suzie's sessions. Thanks again. We look forward to the future sessions with Suzie.
You are what we are most Thankful for
Hi Suzie, We wish you and yours a beautiful Thanksgiving and Christmas Season! We are Thankful for you helping people like us, ... who 'walked into ....pure hell ... and are trying to find our way back to the 'real love and respect' we had for each other. We are making progress... I know we still do love each other. I hope our love can handle all this necessary 'shaking off the dirt' that spit upon us, during his 'affairs-escape-rides'. And so many other affairs I am certain he has had and will not yet or ever admit - Thank you Suzie, for being available to help us find our way back to some sort of peace of mind. You are what we are most Thankful for. Your passion to help others is a gift we all will take with us and be grateful for....no matter what the outcome is. Thank you so much!
Don’t think our relationship has ever been this good
I can’t believe it’s been one year since the “trauma” (not sure what to even call it). I had been uneasy and anxious (for reasons not well understood by me) for the D-Day but when Aug 26th came I had forgotten it was the 26th until I saw the calendar and then I recalled all of the emotions and the events and feelings of that day one year ago. I immediately decided to have it be a celebration inside of me and nothing else — I celebrated the witch being gone from the office and gone from our lives. I also celebrate Kevin and our drastically improved relationship. We are learning to more closely listen to the other person, to partner, to have more fun, to be more open and talk about our feelings, be more understanding and loving. We are learning the importance of making the other person feel loved and special and how important it is to show daily affection and admiration and appreciation for the other. I am SOO SOO SOO thankful for Brad initially scheduling us and for Suzie’s help — truly what we needed and we are so grateful to have Suzie as a valuable resource to give us the assistance we desperately needed. It’s been one year but I don’t want to keep an Anniversary calendar of the D-Day anniversary — I want that to dissolve but this first year since “the problem” is kind of a milestone and I stop for a moment to reflect on the past year and what we have learned—SO MUCH for both of us. Our relationship is a whole entirely different feel for which I’m thankful. What a blessing to feel like this. In fact, I honestly don’t think our relationship has ever been this good, even since marriage. I do remember Kevin to be super thoughtful when we were dating and I think that was definitely his best foot forward but I’m recognizing these same best feet coming around again this past year. He’s truly been wonderful, thanks to Suzie, who has brought out the best in him and helped him to work through his “stuff.” Suzie is amazing!!!!! I love her!!! We have appreciated her patience with us as we work through our ego-driven baggage. We are SO grateful.
He is following all of your advice.
First, let me start out by thanking you for your wonderful website and all of your helpful, healing programs. You have been a daily companion of mine for several months now. To give you a little background on our situation, my husband and I have been married 25 years. I discovered about 6 months ago that he was having an affair with a woman from work. I had absolutely no idea anything was even wrong. It had been going on for about two months when I found out. To say I’m devastated would truly be an understatement. Like one of the women you refer to in your programs, we were the couple everyone referred to as “the happy couple.” He is following all of your advice. He ordered the complete home study library when we found your website. He is remorseful, and being transparent and he’s convinced he will never do anything like this again. I have moments where I believe him and I can see a strong, happy future together and then something triggers for me and I don’t have any idea if he’s being real with me or not and I completely break down. I didn’t have any idea this could hurt so badly. The thing is, I love him. I’m terrified of being a doormat but at the same time, my life doesn’t feel natural without him in it. Married 25 years, we’ve basically grown up together. Thanks so much for everything. It’s quite possible you’ve actually saved me.