SIGNS OF INFIDELITY
8 Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse
 Red Flag # 8: The Emotional Fog
 Do remember your first crush?
That giddy, giggly, groovy feeling that seemed to take over your whole body?
You couldn’t concentrate in class. The person you had a crush on was just about all you could think about. Whenever you were apart, you couldn’t wait to be back in their presence. Everything took second place to him/her.
For teenagers, this is really “puppy love” or infatuation. For adults engaged in an illicit relationship, a better term is an emotional fog.
It’s a dangerous AND delicious emotional state.
That’s what makes it so exciting and addictive – being caught up in the lure of the “forbidden” – the high of the “unknown” – the sensuality of the “newness”. Many partners lose their grip on reality and get caught up in the “illusion” of their thoughts and feelings.
CLASSIC SIGNS OF THE EMOTIONAL FOG
- They walk around in a daze (like a teenager with a crush).
- They lose their appetite and seem to be “in their own world”.
- They lose interest in sex (or have heightened interest in sex).
- They are more responsive to love songs - while songs about
“lying and cheating” cause them to cringe and quickly change the station.
During the emotional fog, the illicit relationship may or may not have been consummated. But one thing is clear. Emotions are now involved.
And once emotions are involved, they have crossed the line!
OK. There you have it. My list of the 8 most reliable warning signs of a cheating spouse. As I have said before, “suspicion" is NOT proof. And the very last thing you want to do is confront your partner without real solid proof.
 Do NOT make the mistake of rushing to conclusions OR accusing, attacking, snooping or spying on your partner to try to catch them in the “act”. This will usually backfire on you.
Let me ask you this: After reading the warning signs…are you feeling more fearful or less fearful that your partner may be drifting away or betraying you?
If you are more fearful, then it’s time to take action. But not just any action… you need to know the RIGHT ACTION to take.
That’s one aread I can help you in.
If you are worried about possible infidelity and you want to know how to get your partner to volunteer the truth, then I invite you to schedule a free private consultation with me.
I can offer you much better alternatives to spying or hiring expensive private detectives.
I'll teach you my proven 4-step strategy for inspiring true confessions. Plus I can show you how to achieve open and honest communications, manage jealousy, increase trust and give you tools to prevent further deterioration / decline of your marriage or relationship.
Think about it. At the end of the day… isn’t that what you really want anyway... a healthy relationship based on trust and open, honest communications?
If it is… then I encourage you to allow me take you by the hand and show you step-by-step what to do about YOUR particular situation so you can stop feeling alone or having to guess what’s really going on.
Until we speak again,
Remember... Love Wins!
Suzie Johnson
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